it seemed that more than 50% of the husbands did 50/50, more than 50 or all (or nearly all) of the cooking. It's becoming much more the norm for men do to a fair share of the cooking.
Add it to yard care, car care, keeping the bills paid, and moving heavy things. We try to find our ways to pitch in.
Balances out our slacking on child care, not picking up laundry, and not listening.