Anonymous wrote:
You could make that comparison, although towns with their own school systems are not uniformly upper middle class, and most of them have larger schools than the FCC schools. But you can definitely find some tony suburbs where the public HS are roughly the same size as George Mason.
I'm from Chicago and each suburb has its own school district. The rich ones are on the north side and the upper middle class are in the northwest. Some of the burbs are quite large, others are relatively small. The mostly upper middle class school district is quite common in a lot of suburban areas of large cities, hell, even Peoria has an upper middle class school district in a suburb.
My wife who grew up in a rural town had to take a bus 20 miles to go to high school and the school still only had 500 students. Rural schools districts are very small and rarely will have 2,000 students in the system. FCC is small by square footage but a dispropriate of their population has school aged children, so it is by no means a small school district compared to other suburbs nationwide.
As for kids going to the school with the same kids for 13 years, it didn't worry me. First, families move in and out of this area all the time. Second, in Fairfax County, most pyramids have kids stay together the entire 13 years, so you will know some kids the whole time. Third, my kids interact with tons of Fairfax County kids (two blocks down the road is Fairfax County) at parks, parties, dance classes, at the pool, and other activities, so it isn't like they only have school friends. Fourth, I was thinking of private school at one time and many of them are even smaller and go through K-12 (i.e. Sidwell), so it isn't unusual. Finally, as a kid that moved around a lot due to a parent in the military, the thought of my child having lifelong friends is actually kind of appealing. The small sized nature of the school kid of prevents or at least retards a lot of the problems in bigger schools. If my child hit someone, I definitely go out of my way to correct that behavior than have an awkward 13 years around a particular parent. It's just more communal in nature.