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Anonymous wrote:We were invited to a party, and I've been stalking who else is attending for the past week or so. Then it occured to me, can the host see how many times I've viewed it or the most recent date? I know they can tell when I viewed it before I RSVP'ed but I wasn't sure about after. I just don't want them to think that I'm a psycho. (although clearly I am!)

Why do you want to know who is attending?

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Anonymous wrote:OP here. I thought that after I rsvped that all the host could see was the actual date that I RSVPed. I guess I'd better just stop looking to be on the safe side.

You're right. This is how it works. After you RSvP, all they can see is the date you RSVPed.

It might depend on the site. We had dds party on Saturday. I could see that at least parents, who had already rsvp’d had viewed the invite ‘two hours ago’. I presumed they were checking the address, not stalking the invite list.

Anonymous wrote:OP here. That's what I wanted to know!

You can check or uncheck a box so that you get emails each time someone after you rsvps. I think it shows the box when you rsvp.

I have a current evite for an event that I am rhanozing. I just logged on to check because of this thread. When I go to the guest tabs where it divides the guests into rsvp status ( yes, maybe, no) it tells me the last time each guest viewed. It has for me, under yes, as “viewed now” even though I was first RSVP. I can’t remembee when each person RSVP but under each guest it says when they viewed it. I guess I would need to compare it to the “activity” tab where it lists when people write “can’t wait” or “looking forward to it”. So see if the time stamps match. But that’s a lot of work so I’m not donngthat and I bet the organizer of OPs event isn’t either. If I did happen to realize someone who had RSVPed already kept viewing the evite I wouldn’t care or was just assuming they were checking the event details for their schedule. I wouldn’t worry about it OP.

Who sends evites? So low class

Can the host see who looked at the guest list?

Just curious...does paperless post work the same way? Have never sent a paperless post myself so wonder if the host can see when i view too.

Anonymous wrote:I'm not sure now accurate this thing is. One of the guests' status showed up as not viewed yet, but she verbally RSVP'd to me.

She probably viewed it in her email (you can see date and time in the email) and didn't actually click on the link. If she doesn't click on the link, it doesn't register as "viewed."

If you want to keep tabs on who is attending, you can click the option to get an email notice every time someone rsvps. You can do this as a guest, after you rsvp yourself. No need to keep checking the evite page this way.

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Yes the host can c every time you peek at it b4 rsvp

Anonymous wrote:no, they can't tell if you view it again once you have RSVP'd. I have 3 active Evites (that I sent) and I just checked. You're in the clear.

OP here. Thanks! And, now, it really doesn't matter who else is attending. I just got to thinking about it and wondered if they would see my views post RSVP. We get evites all the time for neighborhood get togethers and things at my son's school, so I wanted to know for the future, as well. Thanks for enabling my nonsense!

You can see every time they check in to view the invitation.

Maybe she got all the info she needed from the email.