Anonymous wrote:Have you tried negotiating a higher salary with your current employer? I get so frustrated with people who get pissy about not making as much as another person and yet they do nothing to try and increase their own salary. YOu have no one to be angry with but yourself, OP, for not being a louder advocate for yourself. No one else will do it for you.
OP here. I did try but was basically told to shove it. I know the only way is to leave. However, that will change the whole routine we have now. My ex is no help at all and I have no family here.
I agree with you though. I think I will start looking and then try to negotiate again when I have an offer. I am too angry to let it go on like this.