Anonymous
Post 09/19/2012 12:26     Subject: Men are only as Faithful as their Options
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I love my wife and kids. Of course I do. But if the opportunity arose to bang some hot chick with no repercussions, I'd bang her in a heart beat. Since no one else would know, it wouldn't harm anything. I can live with myself totally. It doesn't mean I love the family less.


I actuallly believe, based on personal experience, that the "chick" doesn't even have to be all that hot. Men just can't help themselves. They are programmed in their DNA to stray. If they can stray, they will.


Exhibit A: Monica Lewinsky

WJC could have banged the hottest women in the free world he led, but he chose hummers from the fat chick who was there.
Anonymous
Post 09/19/2012 12:23     Subject: Men are only as Faithful as their Options
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I love my wife and kids. Of course I do. But if the opportunity arose to bang some hot chick with no repercussions, I'd bang her in a heart beat. Since no one else would know, it wouldn't harm anything. I can live with myself totally. It doesn't mean I love the family less.


I actuallly believe, based on personal experience, that the "chick" doesn't even have to be all that hot. Men just can't help themselves. They are programmed in their DNA to stray. If they can stray, they will.


Based on personal experience, I totally agree with what you said.


Men typically cheat down.
Anonymous
Post 09/19/2012 12:08     Subject: Men are only as Faithful as their Options
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I love my wife and kids. Of course I do. But if the opportunity arose to bang some hot chick with no repercussions, I'd bang her in a heart beat. Since no one else would know, it wouldn't harm anything. I can live with myself totally. It doesn't mean I love the family less.


I actuallly believe, based on personal experience, that the "chick" doesn't even have to be all that hot. Men just can't help themselves. They are programmed in their DNA to stray. If they can stray, they will.


Based on personal experience, I totally agree with what you said.
Anonymous
Post 09/19/2012 12:06     Subject: Re:Men are only as Faithful as their Options
Anonymous wrote:There are cheater and non- cheater.

Non-cheater don't cheat no matter the circumstance.

Cheaters will cheat (no matter how wonderful their spouse) but they need opportunity and timing.

They may be at a conference - timing - but no opportunity.
They may be at a conference and get hit on - opportunity - but their spouse came with them - bad timing.

So yuo need to be a cheater (which is internal to each person), have good timing and an opportunity.


I like this. I'm going to start using the term "unfufilled cheater" from now on
Anonymous
Post 09/19/2012 12:06     Subject: Men are only as Faithful as their Options
Anonymous wrote:I love my wife and kids. Of course I do. But if the opportunity arose to bang some hot chick with no repercussions, I'd bang her in a heart beat. Since no one else would know, it wouldn't harm anything. I can live with myself totally. It doesn't mean I love the family less.


I actuallly believe, based on personal experience, that the "chick" doesn't even have to be all that hot. Men just can't help themselves. They are programmed in their DNA to stray. If they can stray, they will.
Anonymous
Post 09/19/2012 12:03     Subject: Re:Men are only as Faithful as their Options
There are cheater and non- cheater.

Non-cheater don't cheat no matter the circumstance.

Cheaters will cheat (no matter how wonderful their spouse) but they need opportunity and timing.

They may be at a conference - timing - but no opportunity.
They may be at a conference and get hit on - opportunity - but their spouse came with them - bad timing.

So yuo need to be a cheater (which is internal to each person), have good timing and an opportunity.
Anonymous
Post 09/19/2012 12:00     Subject: Men are only as Faithful as their Options
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I love my wife and kids. Of course I do. But if the opportunity arose to bang some hot chick with no repercussions, I'd bang her in a heart beat. Since no one else would know, it wouldn't harm anything. I can live with myself totally. It doesn't mean I love the family less.


You are disgusting.



Indeed. Honestly disgusting. But I wouldn't waste a chance. Like one of the pp said, it's a victimless crime.


You don't realize it, but you would be the victim. Unless you are incapable of guilt or remorse, it which case we're talking serial killer territory...



Definitely not a serial killer. Guilt? ah... maybe a bit. But I'm good at forgiving myself too so that's not an issue for me. Still don't see how I am a victim though. I'm not hurting anyone because no one knows!!!!
Anonymous
Post 09/19/2012 11:55     Subject: Men are only as Faithful as their Options
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I love my wife and kids. Of course I do. But if the opportunity arose to bang some hot chick with no repercussions, I'd bang her in a heart beat. Since no one else would know, it wouldn't harm anything. I can live with myself totally. It doesn't mean I love the family less.


You are disgusting.



Indeed. Honestly disgusting. But I wouldn't waste a chance. Like one of the pp said, it's a victimless crime.


You don't realize it, but you would be the victim. Unless you are incapable of guilt or remorse, it which case we're talking serial killer territory...
Anonymous
Post 09/19/2012 11:54     Subject: Men are only as Faithful as their Options
Anonymous wrote:This is a very cynical thread.



I completely agree. And haven't you noticed it's been a cynical couple of days on this forum? All because of a suspiciously fake post from someone posing as a former au pair.
Anonymous
Post 09/19/2012 11:53     Subject: Men are only as Faithful as their Options
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I love my wife and kids. Of course I do. But if the opportunity arose to bang some hot chick with no repercussions, I'd bang her in a heart beat. Since no one else would know, it wouldn't harm anything. I can live with myself totally. It doesn't mean I love the family less.


You are disgusting.



Indeed. Honestly disgusting. But I wouldn't waste a chance. Like one of the pp said, it's a victimless crime.
Anonymous
Post 09/19/2012 11:52     Subject: Men are only as Faithful as their Options
I think it also comes down to personalities. My husband is an introvert and not all that sexually adventurous - never had a one night stand even as a good-looking single man. So of the two of us, I honestly think I'd be the one more likely to stray in the given scenario.
Anonymous
Post 09/19/2012 11:49     Subject: Men are only as Faithful as their Options
Anonymous wrote:OP here, I'm not saying all men cheat. I'm sure there are throngs of men who haven't and will never cheat. My post is more about the reason why non-cheaters haven't cheated or will never cheat. If they were offered sex on a platter by women who they find attractive, with the assurance that no one would find out/all hell won't break lose, would they go for it?

Take celebrities for example, many of the good looking men have women clamoring left and right for their attention and most of them end up sucumbing because they can't resist. Now imagine that your average joe DH has attractive women left and right making googly faces at him, do you think he will eventually cave?


I think he will cave if offered the chance.
Anonymous
Post 09/19/2012 11:49     Subject: Men are only as Faithful as their Options
The title of the thread translates roughly to "the ability of a man to remain faithful depends on how many options he has". If he ONLY has your devoted loving eyes as a DW looking at him, then ofcourse, he will be less likely to stray. But if he's a clone of Brad Pitt and he has women noticing him left and right, it means he has other options besides DW and will be more likely to cheat.
Anonymous
Post 09/19/2012 11:48     Subject: Men are only as Faithful as their Options
My DH wouldn't cheat in that scenario because marriage for him has intrinsic value.
Anonymous
Post 09/19/2012 11:46     Subject: Men are only as Faithful as their Options
Anonymous wrote:I love my wife and kids. Of course I do. But if the opportunity arose to bang some hot chick with no repercussions, I'd bang her in a heart beat. Since no one else would know, it wouldn't harm anything. I can live with myself totally. It doesn't mean I love the family less.


You are disgusting.