I was sad to hear about your negative experience with the orientation, I am this year's president-elect of the OTES PTA and would be glad to help you with any issues you might have.
Overall, OTES has proven to be a great school with excellent staff and teachers, but I will tell you that we were also pretty freaked out when we first got there. In fact it provoked a whole "maybe we should think private school" discussion. This proved to be entering kindergarten jitters and I hope it will prove the same for you.
Feel free to email me at
benpass4@hotmail.com if I. An do anything to help.