Anonymous
Post 06/25/2012 21:48     Subject: would you have a 4th child at age 38?

Nope. I had mine at 28 and 30 and am now 36 and don't want another at this age.
Anonymous
Post 06/25/2012 21:42     Subject: Re:would you have a 4th child at age 38?

We now have four. They are 8,4,4 and 1. I had our last little guy at 36. He is a wonderful addition and I feel it gives a little more balance to our family. Sometimes I think our eldest felt a little bit like the "odd man out" with her twin brother and sister and now she has a real bond with our youngest. It is incredible! Like yourselves we are not well off by DC standards but we make it work. Good luck with your decision!
Anonymous
Post 06/25/2012 20:34     Subject: would you have a 4th child at age 38?

Well, I wouldn't have a 4th at all, but if you want that many kids, I don't think age should stop you!
Anonymous
Post 06/25/2012 20:31     Subject: would you have a 4th child at age 38?

I had my 3rd at 39, so my vote is definitely yes!
Anonymous
Post 06/25/2012 18:45     Subject: Re:would you have a 4th child at age 38?

All of you moms are an inspiration to me. I am about to turn 39 and am pregnant with my 3rd so I'm glad to be in such great company!
Anonymous
Post 06/25/2012 18:43     Subject: Re:would you have a 4th child at age 38?

Just had my 4th at 39. No problem.
Anonymous
Post 06/25/2012 18:18     Subject: would you have a 4th child at age 38?

I just had #3 at 35, turning 36 soon. I'm already considering #4 -- thinking if we follow the same course as #1,2 and 3 then #4 could be born when I am 37/38. So, my vote is Go for It! Please keep us posted.
Anonymous
Post 06/25/2012 18:11     Subject: Re:would you have a 4th child at age 38?

I would not have a 2nd at age 38, but that is me and you are you. If there is no real reason to deter you, go ahead.
Anonymous
Post 06/25/2012 17:10     Subject: Re:would you have a 4th child at age 38?

You survived 3 year old twins and a baby at age 35/36...I think you can handle it. I would no question.
Anonymous
Post 06/25/2012 16:47     Subject: would you have a 4th child at age 38?

Well, I'm 42 and just had #1 so obviously I think it's fine.
Anonymous
Post 06/25/2012 16:46     Subject: Re:would you have a 4th child at age 38?

Anonymous wrote:I had #2 at 37. At 39 we went through a time where we thought we would try for #3. At 41 it's still a consideration. So, 38 would be doable for me.


same stats as you. I decided at 42 that there is no way in hell Id go for a third now. I conceived first try with my other two and have several family members that conceieved easily after 40 with healthy babies. It's the age thing that sticks with me. The 4 and below years are tiring even of you are a marAthon runner like me.
Anonymous
Post 06/25/2012 16:46     Subject: Re:would you have a 4th child at age 38?

I am 37 with 4 kids (had my last just a few weeks before my 31st birthday), but REALLY REALLY want another one. If Dh was on board, I would try to get pregnant now--so likely I would have my 5th child at age 38...

So yes, I would have a 4th child at age 38
Anonymous
Post 06/25/2012 16:44     Subject: Re:would you have a 4th child at age 38?

Anonymous wrote:I had my second (and final) child a few months short of 39, and we're thrilled. Would I have more energy if I were 29 or 34? Probably. But I feel great and we're having a blast!

If you feel you want a fourth child, I wouldn't let age hold you back. Good luck!


I had my second and final a month after I turned 38. I think this is much different than a 4th. Two vs 4 kids as an older parents is a biiiggggg difference!!!!
Anonymous
Post 06/25/2012 15:06     Subject: would you have a 4th child at age 38?

I had my second at 40 so clearly I think 38 is fine for a fourth. My concern for you would be another set of twins!
Anonymous
Post 06/25/2012 15:03     Subject: would you have a 4th child at age 38?

I'm due with #4 in September and turn 38 two months later. Right about now this feels like insanity, but no more so than my previous pregnancies.