FBO wrote:
Anonymous wrote:yeah, it makes sense that you would want to talk up your woman, to get the other chick's competitive juices flowing. Women want what other women want.
Anonymous wrote:Women want to be appreciated. Talk about her not your wife.
Both if these. Women are more competitive than most men give them credit for...
Um...what would the other be competing against...what would she be winning?
I can't imagine thinking a man was appealing who was trashing his wife. Great, so you married a loser - what does that say about him? The wife probably stopped having sex with him for a reason and that would be clear too.
Women's sex drives rev up with age in the 30s and 40s, it is usually the men that have screwed things up so that the woman stops having sex with him. And not to totally blame the man, it's definitely a dynamic where the woman has probably stopped supporting him at the same time he has stopped trying/making her feel desired etc. and then the domino effect happens. Pretty common marriage dynamic.