Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I don't know all the facts of this case, but I agree generally with the notion that we should not be putting "jerks" on trial or criminalizing their conduct. This seems like a very sad case, and the American "blame" culture going awry. A very unhappy kid took his own life, and we have to blame someone. And it may be true that he was treated cruelly and bullied by the defendant. But that doesn't mean we should put him on trial.
I think it is a dangerous precedent.
How can you comment on whether this is an appropriate prosecution when you admittedly don't know all of the facts of the case and, most likely, you don't know the law either? Your point may be reasonable, but you have no idea whether or not this case is a good example of what you're talking about.
You're making a lot of assumptions about me. How many other people have even been prosecuted for a violation of this webcam spying law in the past? If spying is illegal in NJ, the prosecutor's office should be going after every kid who videos another person and puts it on facebook without permission. Not just when the outcome is so sad. Otherwise we're criminalizing the result... not the conduct.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I don't know all the facts of this case, but I agree generally with the notion that we should not be putting "jerks" on trial or criminalizing their conduct. This seems like a very sad case, and the American "blame" culture going awry. A very unhappy kid took his own life, and we have to blame someone. And it may be true that he was treated cruelly and bullied by the defendant. But that doesn't mean we should put him on trial.
I think it is a dangerous precedent.
How can you comment on whether this is an appropriate prosecution when you admittedly don't know all of the facts of the case and, most likely, you don't know the law either? Your point may be reasonable, but you have no idea whether or not this case is a good example of what you're talking about.
Anonymous wrote:The case may have been tried in the media, but that may not have much to do with what the jury decided. I'm a trial attorney and in my experience jurors take their jobs very seriously. They are instructed on the elements of each charge (unlike most people who have written about this story, on this thread and elsewhere). I don't know enough about the particular charges in this case to comment, but having watched many criminal trials, I wouldn't be so quick to assume that he was convicted for merely being a jerk.
Anonymous wrote:I don't know all the facts of this case, but I agree generally with the notion that we should not be putting "jerks" on trial or criminalizing their conduct. This seems like a very sad case, and the American "blame" culture going awry. A very unhappy kid took his own life, and we have to blame someone. And it may be true that he was treated cruelly and bullied by the defendant. But that doesn't mean we should put him on trial.
I think it is a dangerous precedent.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Thank god. What an ass.
If we criminalized being an ass and a jerk, the prisons would be way more overcrowded than they are now. Ravi's conduct should be condemned, but not criminalized, any more than John Edwards (a real jerk) should be on trial.
John Edwards isn't on trial for being a jerk. He is on trial for allegedly violating federal campaign finance laws.
Anonymous wrote:Am I the only one that thinks the media really skewed this case?
1) He never filmed the roommate having sex (just kissing)
2) The roommate was not closeted, he was openly gay
3) The roommate's Mother just a week earlier told him she was disappointed he was gay and didn't approve of his choices.
4) Ravi sent an email (before he jumped off a bridge) apologizing and saying he had no problem with him being gay.
When I was a college freshman lots of stories like this happened between (straight) roommates. Freshmen at college are basically idiots. I think his mother's rejection had more to do with his suicide than his roommate. Of course there is no proof since there is no note.
I agree with him being convicted of privacy invasion, but don't agree with the other counts.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Thank god. What an ass.
If we criminalized being an ass and a jerk, the prisons would be way more overcrowded than they are now. Ravi's conduct should be condemned, but not criminalized, any more than John Edwards (a real jerk) should be on trial.
Anonymous wrote:Thank god. What an ass.