Anonymous wrote:Real reason is either you don't have kids or you have kids and are selfish not wanting the best for your kids vs convienance
Right, because what is best for my kid is definitely having my add an extra hour to my and my husband's commute, spending less time with them in the morning and at night, and having us both stressed from spending an hour in traffic every day. All much better for them than eating breakfast and dinner with their parents everyday and going to a wonderful elementary school with great teachers and a diverse student body, and a middle school with a top-notch IB program.
Thanks PP, you have really shown me the error of my ways! I mean, they are both A students and speak fluent Spanish, but I hadn't realized until now how I am ruining their lives and certainly blowing their opportunity to get into Harvard. All for my shorter commute. I'm so selfish.