Anonymous wrote:http://www.usatoday.com/life/people/story/2012-02-18/whitney-houston-funeral-new-jersey/53140578/1
Excessive.
I read the article -- thanks for the link -- and the essay another poster mentioned in "Steroscopic Magic." I learned from both, and I think others might, too. Is the funeral excessive because of its length and the number of speakers -- or is it perhaps part of a home going (as the article says) that includes particular traditions? Is what people are mourning a celebrity or an icon who broke through images that many young women and many families needed in an era where media stereotypes reigned (as the second article suggests)?
I don't want to start a messy dialogue, here, but I find it telling and related that Octavia Spencer and Viola Davis's nominations for
The Help represent the first time in Oscar history that two African-American women are both on the slate for the same film (and the irony of the film's subject can't be lost on any of us). African-American women continue to suffer under a whole, whole bunch of misperceptions and stereotypes. The ceiling that's still got some glass for all women has even more of it, I think, for black women. Sadly (tragically) Houston's fall into a life of addiction and different kinds of excess kept her from becoming a positive role model for black (and white) women. If the words these days are elegiac, so be it: a lot of potential is and was gone, and there are reasons to mourn.