Anonymous
Post 02/09/2012 19:55     Subject: sex after birth... somewhat TMI

I honestly don't care. The number 1 trait for a good woman in bed is enthusiasm. I bet if you like it more, he likes it more. My wife is more loose, but it hasn't stopped me from thinking about it daily.
Anonymous
Post 02/09/2012 18:59     Subject: sex after birth... somewhat TMI

My DH said that after I had the baby I was looser but then when I started exercising a lot and with kegels, everything went back to the way it was.
Anonymous
Post 02/09/2012 18:30     Subject: sex after birth... somewhat TMI

Anonymous wrote:Wait, you think men keep trading up to younger women merely because their wives' twats get loose?



Their twats along with everything else.
Anonymous
Post 02/08/2012 23:30     Subject: sex after birth... somewhat TMI

Wait, you think men keep trading up to younger women merely because their wives' twats get loose?
Anonymous
Post 02/08/2012 20:28     Subject: sex after birth... somewhat TMI

Anonymous wrote:
ThatSmileyFaceGuy wrote:It would have changed over time anyway wether or not you had a vaginal delivery. Stop over thinking it and enjoy the sex and intimacy with DH




Interesting. I hadn't thought about that but I guess it would like everything else does.


But not so soon. Thats why some men keep trading up for a younger woman.
Anonymous
Post 02/08/2012 15:40     Subject: sex after birth... somewhat TMI

ThatSmileyFaceGuy wrote:It would have changed over time anyway wether or not you had a vaginal delivery. Stop over thinking it and enjoy the sex and intimacy with DH




Interesting. I hadn't thought about that but I guess it would like everything else does.

TheManWithAUsername
Post 02/08/2012 13:22     Subject: sex after birth... somewhat TMI

Anonymous wrote:Enjoy where you are right now, open up to your dh, and keep rocking it between the sheets! I promise you that if you whisper to your husband in great, dirty detail about how amaaaazing he feels inside of you, have awesome orgasms with him, and take him to bed often ... he won't have anything to complain about.

Good advice.
ThatSmileyFaceGuy
Post 02/08/2012 12:59     Subject: sex after birth... somewhat TMI

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Sigh. I don't know, my DH is diplomatic but also straightforward. Today he said he thinks he likes it better this way. But maybe I am pressing too much.

It's a weird feeling to feel both sexually liberated and like damaged goods at the same time.

Man here. I hope thay you're not being too insecure by constantly asking him about it. That's a sure fire turn off!!! He's not gonna tell you something that you can't fix right now. I'm sure he just likes having sex with you...loose or tight it's better than nothing.


Its the attutude of "It's better than nothing" is the reason she's insecure.