The original post was from a long time ago, but I could practically copy it and paste it to suit our needs in a couple of years, as we are in the same boat, so to speak :0) Thought I would give it a shot, though, on the small chance that you would be notified of another comment on here, and find out how it went! where you chose to send your 5 year-old, how it is going, etc?!
Thanks,
Jen