Anonymous
Post 12/13/2011 19:43     Subject: Do you guys really kiss each other?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:What do you guys do before you have sex? no kissing?


Sex is a chore, something else to check off my list of things to do. No, there's no kissing. I want it to be as quick as possible.
I also don't want to be kissed like that anymore because DH will always want more. He can't just kiss with getting rock hard expecting me to put out. I resist his kissing because of this reason.

Sad... I know.


on behalf of your DH,.. Ouch!
Anonymous
Post 12/13/2011 17:04     Subject: Do you guys really kiss each other?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:What do you guys do before you have sex? no kissing?


Sex is a chore, something else to check off my list of things to do. No, there's no kissing. I want it to be as quick as possible.
I also don't want to be kissed like that anymore because DH will always want more. He can't just kiss with getting rock hard expecting me to put out. I resist his kissing because of this reason.

Sad... I know.


PP, did you always feel this way about your DH, or did it happen after kids?
Anonymous
Post 12/13/2011 15:22     Subject: Do you guys really kiss each other?
Anonymous wrote:What do you guys do before you have sex? no kissing?


Sex is a chore, something else to check off my list of things to do. No, there's no kissing. I want it to be as quick as possible.
I also don't want to be kissed like that anymore because DH will always want more. He can't just kiss with getting rock hard expecting me to put out. I resist his kissing because of this reason.

Sad... I know.
Anonymous
Post 12/13/2011 09:21     Subject: Do you guys really kiss each other?
Hmm. Is it bad that I can't remember? Perhaps I've morphed into the Julia roberts character from pretty woman. Well, just the no kissing on the mouth part. Not the prostitute part.
Anonymous
Post 12/13/2011 09:04     Subject: Do you guys really kiss each other?
My DH has nice, full lips and thinks it is his duty to kiss often.
Anonymous
Post 12/13/2011 08:49     Subject: Re:Do you guys really kiss each other?
I would be willing to bet money that the couple kissing passionately in the car was not married!

My DH kisses me when he comes home from work, but we don't 'make out' unless one of us is feeling frisky and hoping for something more
Anonymous
Post 12/12/2011 09:37     Subject: Re:Do you guys really kiss each other?
Sure, every once in a while. Together 19 years, married 16.
Anonymous
Post 12/11/2011 21:21     Subject: Re:Do you guys really kiss each other?
I wish we did it more. We actually did start kissing on the couch last night--jsut feeling close and loving--and my toddler immediately inserted himself between us, pushed Daddy away and started covering my face with smooches. It was funny, but...well, Oedipus anyone?
Anonymous
Post 12/11/2011 13:11     Subject: Do you guys really kiss each other?
DH here and I am huge on kissing. For me, it is the start of any erotic activity. No inch of my wife goes untouched.
Anonymous
Post 12/11/2011 11:39     Subject: Re:Do you guys really kiss each other?
No, we probably should. I am just not, and have never been, a big fan of kissing. I also have never had really sensitive boobs (like really enjoyed having my boobs touched, not that I mind it, it's just not particularly erotic). But I agree kissing is a good way to connect - we need to work on our affection - it's tough with two little kids. Sigh.
Anonymous
Post 12/11/2011 07:34     Subject: Do you guys really kiss each other?
Anonymous wrote:Oh gosh, I just had a dream last night that I was making out with someone (not my DH) and realized how much I miss it. DH and I definitely don't make out the way we used to.


Me, too! And making out was my absolutely favorite part of intimacy, but DH isn't a very good kisser and I have tried and tried...sigh...
Anonymous
Post 12/11/2011 07:20     Subject: Do you guys really kiss each other?
Yes, but I haven't made out in a car parked in traffic since I was probably 17.
Anonymous
Post 12/10/2011 23:42     Subject: Do you guys really kiss each other?
Anonymous wrote:I wonder if you saw me in the car! lol And no I don't kiss my husband like that anymore.


Love this post! Heehee.
Anonymous
Post 12/10/2011 23:38     Subject: Do you guys really kiss each other?
I made a "rule" recently that DH and I had to kiss for 2 minute everyday. He made fun of me beyond belief when I suggested it. But, it's a basic connection that's been missing. Sometimes we forget, which sounds pathetic. But it's an improvement.

/married 10 years, together for 13.
Anonymous
Post 12/10/2011 17:10     Subject: Do you guys really kiss each other?
I wonder if you saw me in the car! lol And no I don't kiss my husband like that anymore.