Anonymous wrote:I am completely depressed. My husband lost his job. We have looked at everything we can save money on - even down to me changing my hair style to one that doesn't need cutting as often. The only thing left to do would be sell the house, but all these cuts we've made were in the interest of being able to keep the house. Even though we bought in 2008 it has depreciated so much we can't sell it without losing lots of money, and there are now a lot of things that need fixing that we can't afford to do. And then where would we go? I'm in a job I hate and have been living for the day when I can leave, but I don't think that's going to happen now. I'm making decent money for someone in my field at my job level, so I need to stay here. In a few more months our savings will run out. All we talk about now is what else can we cut (there's nothing left at this point) and what can we sell? When this first happened I was really positive, we can get through this, we'll do what we have to do. But now I feel like crying constantly. Everything sucks. I can't talk to my husband about how I feel because that would just make him feel even worse than he already does.
Can you rent your house to cover the mortgage plus $200 and downsize into a rental and survive on one income? Does your husband have a graduate degree or professional degree, if not, can he go back to school? That is what our neighbors did.