The asking for sex line by the op bothered me too. Don't you want/ initiate sex? Shouldn't be something we ask for in my opinion. Sorry, but sounds like there may be some issues in your marriage. I would check his phone, I would also talk to him about how you Are feeling , is he happy in the marriage, what can you both do to make it better. Unfortunately, my own experience was tHat our gut feeling is often right. Good luck to you both.

Go on Maury!!!