Anonymous wrote:OP, once you hit 40 you won't give a sh*t anymore. Seriously.

This is pretty darn true. For my entire 20s and 30s I was quite attractive. Especially when I dolled up, I was often (all modesty aside, given this is anonymous!) one of the most attractive people in the room. At parties, I pulled! It was great fun! Now I am 43, and still attractive, buuuuut . . . definitely not getting the male attention I used to AT ALL. But you know what - it's okay! I sort of miss it (or notice it, anyway), but I also feel like I'm in a new phase of life (married to a great guy with a great young child) and that is where I want to be.

Anonymous wrote:I'm the PP again.

I wanted to clarify. When I said I prefer younger women, I mean younger rather than older in a general sense, not women who are younger than me.

You're just a baby, then!

I'm the PP again.

I wanted to clarify. When I said I prefer younger women, I mean younger rather than older in a general sense, not women who are younger than me.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Older men (your age and older) will find you attractive.

I prefer younger women. Generally better looking with better bodies and younger skin.

With so many young male hotties out there, I doubt the feeling's mutual . . .

I'm younger than the OP. I answered from the perspective of someone who's younger than she is.

Anonymous wrote:Young dad (30) here. I find an incredibly toned body, a nicely curved face with no blemishes, cute boobs (not too big B or C cup) and light hair (Swedish blonde is most attractive raven is least attractive) are traits of an attractive woman. Also she better be younger than 35 (death age in my book). There you go. Happy?

ugh

young dads . . .

You'll hit mid-life sooner rather than later.

Anonymous wrote:Dif'rent strokes. Nothing hotter than a black haired girl. Blondes are far too wan and commonplace. We'll get back to you when your braces come off, youngster.

Count me as a fan of busty brunettes here. But, it's not like I'm swimming in so much female attention that I'm going to be fussy about minor details.

Anonymous wrote:Why have so many women answered this thread when OP says she is specifically not asking them?

because women don't listen & they can't keep their mouth shut except when their husband asks for a blow job

I think if you're moping a lot about your age, THAT is unattractive beyond belief.

Each guy's preferences are different; if you're able to stay height-weight proportionate (some degree of overweight is ok if you have larger breasts, though) and don't have skin like a leather briefcase -- you'll do just fine.

Anonymous wrote:Older men (your age and older) will find you attractive.

I prefer younger women. Generally better looking with better bodies and younger skin.

With so many young male hotties out there, I doubt the feeling's mutual . . .

Anonymous wrote:Young dad (30) here. I find an incredibly toned body, a nicely curved face with no blemishes, cute boobs (not too big B or C cup) and light hair (Swedish blonde is most attractive raven is least attractive) are traits of an attractive woman. Also she better be younger than 35 (death age in my book). There you go. Happy?

Dif'rent strokes. Nothing hotter than a black haired girl. Blondes are far too wan and commonplace. We'll get back to you when your braces come off, youngster.

Why have so many women answered this thread when OP says she is specifically not asking them?

Anonymous wrote:Woman here. Beauty fades. Dumb is forever. I think that sums it up, OP.

Well you must be dumb, the OP asked for men to answer only

I would rather have a 55 year old women who can suck a golf ball through a garden hose than a hot young chick who can't suck a frapachino through a straw

Young dad (30) here. I find an incredibly toned body, a nicely curved face with no blemishes, cute boobs (not too big B or C cup) and light hair (Swedish blonde is most attractive raven is least attractive) are traits of an attractive woman. Also she better be younger than 35 (death age in my book). There you go. Happy?

Anonymous wrote:OP, once you hit 40 you won't give a sh*t anymore. Seriously.

This is true. and of course, the women who do--and are over 40--will become that much more attractive.