My current in-home provider takes a week vacation and up to 5 personal days per year - she does not ask that we pay her for these. She does get paid for federal holidays (evidently Columbus Day is included which is news as of today.)
I previously used an in-home provider and she took 2 wks paid vacation and holidays. She even took Inauguration Day in 2009, mirroring the school districts, which I think is a load of BS because only those working in DC have the day off.