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Anonymous wrote:I think most "teachers" are pathetic overpaid public employees. They whine about the children's behavior. They while about the parents. They whine about all the extra hours for prep time. They want to be revered as the most important professions in our society, but they hide behind their union to secure benefits for even the worst of their kind.

Our kids are our responsibility to raise into educated adults with the right values, and there is no indication that the teachers we've dealt with are up to that challenge.

Besides, what's the downside? Am I going to teach finger-painting wrong?

The kids get lots of socialization through church and sports, etc. but instead of sitting in a room with 30 kids the same age and marching to the sound of a bell every hour, they get to learn in a much more exciting and fulfilling way, taking lots of trips and having lots of spontaneous interactions with people from all walks of life.

Wow. Spoken like someone who has never set foot inside a classroom. I have a teaching degree from a highly regarded program from a highly regarded school. I spent four years teaching at an inner city public high school and let me tell you, the teachers are not the problem. Problems I ran into:

35 kids per class
Absent/uninvolved parents, which led to truancy, gang affiliation and crime.
Being forced to teach to a standardized test rather than teaching interesting and engaging material in an interesting and engaging way.
Being paid for a 30 hour work week but actually working 50-60 hours
Shabby/broken classroom furniture and equipment
$25/student to spend on supplies and only if the student pays the lab fee. I taught at a school where 83% of the student body were FARMs so yeah, good luck getting that money!

You clearly don't know what you're talking about so STFU.

Also, teachers don't get paid for their summer breaks. Our 9 month salaries get split up into 12 month payments.

Anonymous wrote:I think most "teachers" are pathetic overpaid public employees. They whine about the children's behavior. They while about the parents. They whine about all the extra hours for prep time. They want to be revered as the most important professions in our society, but they hide behind their union to secure benefits for even the worst of their kind.

Our kids are our responsibility to raise into educated adults with the right values, and there is no indication that the teachers we've dealt with are up to that challenge.

Besides, what's the downside? Am I going to teach finger-painting wrong?

The kids get lots of socialization through church and sports, etc. but instead of sitting in a room with 30 kids the same age and marching to the sound of a bell every hour, they get to learn in a much more exciting and fulfilling way, taking lots of trips and having lots of spontaneous interactions with people from all walks of life.

Anonymous wrote:I think most "teachers" are pathetic overpaid public employees. They whine about the children's behavior. They while about the parents. They whine about all the extra hours for prep time. They want to be revered as the most important professions in our society, but they hide behind their union to secure benefits for even the worst of their kind.

Our kids are our responsibility to raise into educated adults with the right values, and there is no indication that the teachers we've dealt with are up to that challenge.

Besides, what's the downside? Am I going to teach finger-painting wrong?

The kids get lots of socialization through church and sports, etc. but instead of sitting in a room with 30 kids the same age and marching to the sound of a bell every hour, they get to learn in a much more exciting and fulfilling way, taking lots of trips and having lots of spontaneous interactions with people from all walks of life.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I have to admit that I sort of always looked down on the education homeschoolers received as I was a product of an elite all-girls academy, but after reading this (http://www.noogenesis.com/game_theory/Gatto/Gatto.html) I had a complete change of heart. I will probably homeschool my children now. I feel terrible that I had judged something so harshly before I really ever gave it a chance. I should also say that my mother-in-law and all 4 sisters-in-law are public school educators. I love them dearly, but from the stories they tell coupled with the web site from above, I would never consider public schooling and would only send my kids to a private/vocational school if they asked for it.

I'm sorry, PP. But I looked at that link and it looks like a load of you-know-what.

Anonymous wrote:I have a friend who is military and home schools two kids, one with mild autism. I have to say that I'm constantly surprised (disturbed) by the poor grammar of her friends in her homeschooling community when they talk on Facebook. That, and how my friend somewhat frequently talks about how she is too tired to homeschool today, so they are going to the beach instead. It has really negatively impacted my perception of homeschooling.

Oh and before anyone criticizes my writing - my kid goes to school.

Anonymous wrote:I have to admit that I sort of always looked down on the education homeschoolers received as I was a product of an elite all-girls academy, but after reading this (http://www.noogenesis.com/game_theory/Gatto/Gatto.html) I had a complete change of heart. I will probably homeschool my children now. I feel terrible that I had judged something so harshly before I really ever gave it a chance. I should also say that my mother-in-law and all 4 sisters-in-law are public school educators. I love them dearly, but from the stories they tell coupled with the web site from above, I would never consider public schooling and would only send my kids to a private/vocational school if they asked for it.

Anonymous wrote:OP, thanks for the sincere and non-judgmental question. There are many reasons, and not all who home school are extremist, religious zealots trying to keep their kids away from the evil world.

I know many people who homeschool. I don't and probably wouldn't, but I understand and respect their choice.

Here are some specific reasons I have heard, from some reasonable, intelligent, educated families:

Military lifestyle. Many of us move every 10 months to 3 years. In my spouse's career, we average around 2 years at an assignment. This lifestyle can result in very inconsistent education for the kids so a lot of military families choose to home school. Every state has different requirements (Think 3 different states in a 4-year high school career. Each state requires geometry in a different grade, but never the grade in which you were stationed at that location. Imagine the kind of senior year catch up and academic holes that situation would bring.). Many military bases are not located in communities that offer high quality education, and a military salary usually does not support expensive private schools, especially if a family has multiple children or is lower ranking, so they choose to homeschool. I know of several military families who usually use traditional schools, but choose to home school in this city because of the wealth of resources that are available. Homeschooling also offers military families flexibility to deal with the unpredictable job requirements, and a sense of continuity and stability for the kids.

Health and well being: I have a very good friend who homeschools her children due to health concerns of one of her children. Her kids are intelligent, well behaved, socialized, articulate and a joy to be around My sister decided to homeschool her son with Aspergers, because the school system was not meeting his unique intellectual and social needs, and because he was starting middle school and becoming aware of the bullying and being ostracized by the other kids. The large junior high was just not the best place for his needs to be met. He is flourishing socially when you compare it to how he was prior to homeschooling.

Academic: A family member attends a well-respected school district. This district adopted a new math curriculum designed to raise the state mandated test scores of the lowest performing students. They were making similar changes in other core subject areas. After one year in this program, my highly gifted niece’s math state achievement scores dropped a significant amount from the 98-99% she usually achieved. Many other high achieving students saw similar results. They home schooled for a year to bring her back to an appropriate level, and put her back into traditional school the following year.

Values: Many home school families do home school their kids for religious reasons. Not all of these people are judgmental crackpots. Many homeschool their younger children to give them a foundation centered on their family’s core beliefs. Once that foundation is built, many send them to public or private high school.

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Anonymous wrote:
I agree there are good reasons to home school and you listed many of them. We moved a lot when I was younger, so my mother would often home school me for the last few months of the year, and it was a wonderful experience. On the other hand, I really don't understand why someone would home school for religious reasons if they are not trying to keep their kids away from the evil world. Can you explain that a little more?

Sure. Here is one specific example that was part of a broader scope of reasons that helped one family I know decide to homeschool.

This particular religious family believes in the scientific theory of evolution, but wanted to be able to explain it to their young child in a way that was compatible to their faith and the Biblical teaching of Creation. In home school science, they talked about how the big bang theory compliments the "Let there be light" passage in the Bible. Out of nothing, came something, so profound and explosive. This compatibility of faith and science could never, in this country, be addressed in a public school setting. As homeschoolers, they could do that. They could study different archeological discoveries like the discovery of ancient twin cities that appear to have been catastrophically destroyed by fire around similar times (I forgot the name but remember seeing the documentary on the History Channel) and compare the discovery to the Biblical tale of Soddom and Gommorah. They were able to research the religious origins of many of our Christmas carols and Rennaisance artwork. They were able to talk about other religions in addition to Christianity, and how faith plays a roll in history. None of these things, important to this religious family, were possible in the public school setting. Homeschooling enabled them to lay a spiritual foundation for their child that a public school would not.