Anonymous
Post 04/20/2011 17:21     Subject: stella & dot trunk show...direct sales??
Anonymous wrote:So then just tell your friend that. Be honest. Maybe that's the best way to discourage your friends from throwing the parties!


I have no interest in having that conversation. I'd rather not be put in that position in the first place.
Anonymous
Post 04/20/2011 16:55     Subject: Re:stella & dot trunk show...direct sales??
I have never once just been invited to a sales party. There are always follow up e-mails and/or calls, etc. And it's one thing telling your close friend that you're not interested in the crap she's selling. It's another when it's a neighbor, mom from your kid's class, friend-of-a-friend type of deal. Frankly, no matter how you spin it, it's just bad manners trying to sell things to your friends or "hosting a party" with an intent to sell to the guests.
Anonymous
Post 04/20/2011 16:45     Subject: stella & dot trunk show...direct sales??
So then just tell your friend that. Be honest. Maybe that's the best way to discourage your friends from throwing the parties!
Anonymous
Post 04/20/2011 16:22     Subject: Re:stella & dot trunk show...direct sales??
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Johnnie Boden is not my friend or acquaintance so I have no problem getting his catalog. When it's someone you know, there's an implicit pressure to buy, and these "parties" take advantage of that. Even if the seller is titally low-key and doesn't push anything, the nature of the relationship makes it awkward. There's no way around it. If you're my friend and you need money just ask and I will help out. But please oh please do not subject me to a sales party!!!


But if you know that going in, then can't you just decline the invite? I try to support my friends just because I like it when they do the same for me, but if I don't want to buy a certain product then I don't go to the party. Now if it's a friend who is constantly pushing a product on you like Mary Kay or something, well, that's different because it's constant, inescapable pressure. But a party? Just say no and go on your merry way. Not everyone gets offended when they get invited -- I actually like some of the parties b/c the products are interesting and you meet new people.


This is exactly what I do, but it's still awkward. I don't like being put in the position of having to make up some excuse when the truth is I'd be happy to attend a non-sales party, which would be just as interesting and enable me to meet new people without paying for the privilege.
Anonymous
Post 04/20/2011 16:04     Subject: Re:stella & dot trunk show...direct sales??
Anonymous wrote:Johnnie Boden is not my friend or acquaintance so I have no problem getting his catalog. When it's someone you know, there's an implicit pressure to buy, and these "parties" take advantage of that. Even if the seller is titally low-key and doesn't push anything, the nature of the relationship makes it awkward. There's no way around it. If you're my friend and you need money just ask and I will help out. But please oh please do not subject me to a sales party!!!


But if you know that going in, then can't you just decline the invite? I try to support my friends just because I like it when they do the same for me, but if I don't want to buy a certain product then I don't go to the party. Now if it's a friend who is constantly pushing a product on you like Mary Kay or something, well, that's different because it's constant, inescapable pressure. But a party? Just say no and go on your merry way. Not everyone gets offended when they get invited -- I actually like some of the parties b/c the products are interesting and you meet new people.
Anonymous
Post 04/20/2011 09:52     Subject: Re:stella & dot trunk show...direct sales??
Johnnie Boden is not my friend or acquaintance so I have no problem getting his catalog. When it's someone you know, there's an implicit pressure to buy, and these "parties" take advantage of that. Even if the seller is titally low-key and doesn't push anything, the nature of the relationship makes it awkward. There's no way around it. If you're my friend and you need money just ask and I will help out. But please oh please do not subject me to a sales party!!!
Anonymous
Post 04/20/2011 01:17     Subject: stella & dot trunk show...direct sales??
I agree. These parties are pushy, and tacky. I have a friend who recently signed with Stella and Dot, and she has sent multiple links, and emails with her new business info. In addition, every conversation seems to lead to Stella and Dot, and how it would be such a great opportunity for some of us housewives. I hate hearing this kind of speech from a person who signed with the company 2wks ago, has done nothing but sink money to it, and has nothing to show for it. All credibility is lost. And while I have not purchased any items from Stella and Dot I did peruse an online catalogue and found the prices to be outrageous for the quality of the pieces. I can tell by looking at the items that they are poorly made, with cheap materials.
And to top it all off, the friend now selling this says, " Host a party, and you'll get free jewelry. Who couldn't use free jewelry, right?? " No party will be osted by me. Sorry
Anonymous
Post 04/08/2011 14:28     Subject: stella & dot trunk show...direct sales??
This is about Mary Kay but dig deep on the site and you might find something useful....like the script people use to get you to sign up for these things...or the fact that people lie and many "top earners" have earned so much because they bought most of the crap themselves and ruined their marriage all for the sake of appearances.

http://www.pinktruth.com/

I know they have a forum, maybe this stella and dot company is mentioned on there.

Anonymous
Post 04/08/2011 13:56     Subject: Re:stella & dot trunk show...direct sales??
Anonymous wrote:Another posted who encourages you NOT to do it. I hate it when people who I think are my friends invite me to these things. I mean, if you need money, just ask me to give you money. Don't expect me to pay for some overpriced junk so that you can earn $5. My budget is tight. I don't have money to spend on overprice crap I don't need just to keep our friendship. And that is what these things turn into - if you don't attend and buy - you lose the friend.





YES. The worst is that I have a enighbor who invites me to all her stella and dot "parties" as well as parties for a kids clothes line she reps, but she does NOT invite me to her regular parties where she is not selling crap!!! Can you believe that?
And Stella and Dot is SO poorly made.
Anonymous
Post 04/08/2011 13:01     Subject: Re:stella & dot trunk show...direct sales??
It is not a party, if you are displaying crap to buy.

When I invite you to a party, I don't make you gawk at my wares.
Anonymous
Post 04/08/2011 12:35     Subject: stella & dot trunk show...direct sales??
"But have you seen Stella & Dot? It’s AMAZING! And in every fashion magazine. But if fashion isn’t your thing, I can see why you would want to skip it!

Generally, girls like to look cute and socialize! So lots of people find this fun. Good luck to you and thanks for sharing thoughts! "

Passive agressive sexist shit.
Anonymous
Post 04/08/2011 12:33     Subject: stella & dot trunk show...direct sales??
"I agree that some other companies have not so great products or they are high pressure. This is so not fun. But Stella & Dot is very classy and casual. AND CUTE! "

And CRAP.

Anonymous
Post 04/08/2011 12:28     Subject: stella & dot trunk show...direct sales??
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:That is what is great about life- free choice and your own opinions! Those that don’t love, don’t have to love. Those that do- can do it, go, whatever!

If you love it, listen to yourself and go for it. I love Stella & Dot! I think people should never feel obligated to buy something they don’t want or go to an event they won’t enjoy. No more than they feel obligated to pop into a cute boutique on their main street. I think Stella & Dot has the most adorable invites. I think it’s a pop up shop in someone’s living room that offers the benefit of friends being able to give each other style advice. I agree a shopping event shouldn’t try to pretend it’s not one! But any invitation I’ve seen is pretty clear that it says come by and shop! It is fun and social! Now of course, only go if you want to. No one should make you feel pressured to do anything you don’t want to do ? ( except if you are a kid and we want you to eat vegtables- then it’s tough luck!).

I agree that some other companies have not so great products or they are high pressure. This is so not fun. But Stella & Dot is very classy and casual. AND CUTE!

I’m not put out when I get a catalog in the mail! I don't feel pressured by Boden, or a friend. I may just browse, and if I’m not in the mood to buy or don’t need anything, I just don’t. When I get invited to some home parties, I skip it since I know I don't like the brand. , I feel happy friends are thinking of me. Nothing more, nothing less. Just not for me. But Stella & Dot, I absolutely love. I buy gifts online from a Stylist- its super easy and my friend and family love getting it!

Especially as moms, we appreciate flexible career choices. When the product is quality and cute, I love to shop in a way that supports girlfriends and offers great personal service. I actually love this much more than a big box store! I would never buy or go if I didn’t like the product though. It’s only if you do and are in the market for a little style. I certainly understand other companies may not have products you love, then you don’t’ want to go. But have you seen Stella & Dot? It’s AMAZING! And in every fashion magazine. But if fashion isn’t your thing, I can see why you would want to skip it!

Generally, girls like to look cute and socialize! So lots of people find this fun. Good luck to you and thanks for sharing thoughts!


There is a huge difference between getting mail from Boden versus getting invited to a trunk show hosted by your friend. HUGE.
Anonymous
Post 04/05/2011 08:35     Subject: Re:stella & dot trunk show...direct sales??
Another posted who encourages you NOT to do it. I hate it when people who I think are my friends invite me to these things. I mean, if you need money, just ask me to give you money. Don't expect me to pay for some overpriced junk so that you can earn $5. My budget is tight. I don't have money to spend on overprice crap I don't need just to keep our friendship. And that is what these things turn into - if you don't attend and buy - you lose the friend.



Anonymous
Post 04/04/2011 19:14     Subject: Re:stella & dot trunk show...direct sales??
Dear DC Urban Moms,

This is Andrea Bejo, with the Stella & Dot customer service team and this post has come to our attention. We would love to make it right for those of you that have had a negative experience with Stella & Dot. We have a great return policy and we always want our customers to be 100% satisfied. If you have a product you are less than happy with, please contact us at 800.920.5893, and we can help you with an exchange or refund.

To the poster curious about being a Stylist, if you have any questions, in addition to chatting with the Stylist who did the Trunk Show you attended, we'd be happy to help -- feel free to contact us at 800.920.5893 or by using the online contact form, which can be accessed at http://home.stelladot.com/luxejewels/help/StylistWebToCase We do offer training on marketing your business.


We encourage and support a casual and service oriented approach and never want to make anyone feel pressured to buy our products. If anyone has had a different experience, we sincerely apologize.

Warm Regards,


Andrea Bejo
Customer Service