Anonymous wrote:To say $250K a year anywhere is rich is ridiculous. It's upper middle class salary, not wealth, not rich. DH and I make this now living in DC. With private school tuition plus nanny plus mortgage and insurances plus healthcare there isn't much left.
Anonymous wrote:To say $250K a year anywhere is rich is ridiculous. It's upper middle class salary, not wealth, not rich. DH and I make this now living in DC. With private school tuition plus nanny plus mortgage and insurances plus healthcare there isn't much left.
Anonymous wrote:To say $250K a year anywhere is rich is ridiculous. It's upper middle class salary, not wealth, not rich. DH and I make this now living in DC. With private school tuition plus nanny plus mortgage and insurances plus healthcare there isn't much left.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:With private school tuition plus nanny plus mortgage and insurances plus healthcare there isn't much left.
Isn't the point that you can in fact have all these things, which most people cannot?
Anonymous wrote:With private school tuition plus nanny plus mortgage and insurances plus healthcare there isn't much left.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:
Agree that it's probably not "down-and-out" - but it does shed a lot of light on the fact that folks who have worked hard, trying to do the right things - like educating themselves (resulting in student loans), saving for retirement, kids' college expenses, and both parents working to make it happen - aren't "rich" by any standard, particularly in this area.
Since when does "doing the right thing" = rich?
You tell me - - I'm not the one who created the arbitrary $250K threshold for being "rich." My point was that folks who are trying to do the right things finanically, i.e., fiscally responsible, are now being saddled with the "rich" tag, when that's far from accurate, especially in this area.
Anonymous wrote:A lot of this has to do with a distorted sense of what the rich are and what the rich do. Yachts, jets, and vacations in St. Tropez aren't the markers of being well-off, as with everything wealth and affluence has gradations. Many of the "appropriate" expenditures of this family from retirement/college savings to a $750k home are in fact choices which are possible because the means are available- most people simply don't have the luxury of these options.
In the DC area, many people elect to live very far from their workplaces, for example, because they simply cannot afford a $3000/month PI payment as this family has. So this family, could easily halve their mortgage and live in a distant suburb to commute to their jobs, but they have the luxury of choice. The family could live with one car, but chooses two- how many families "need' to have two cars in DC or Alexandria if you live proximate to public transport.
So come on...let's get real, especially given that half the world (3 billion people) lives on less than $2.50 a day...try placing $250k a year on that continuum.
Anonymous wrote:
Agree that it's probably not "down-and-out" - but it does shed a lot of light on the fact that folks who have worked hard, trying to do the right things - like educating themselves (resulting in student loans), saving for retirement, kids' college expenses, and both parents working to make it happen - aren't "rich" by any standard, particularly in this area.
Since when does "doing the right thing" = rich?