Anonymous wrote:
While I'm so happy for you and your family's good fortune, I do worry that posts like this unfairly perpetuate the myth that women have well into their 40s to conceive children. The reality is that the chances of women over 40 getting pregnant at all are somewhere less than 10%- you're more likely to get into Harvard. And each year the chances continue to drop. I'm not trying to rain on your parade (or anyone elses) but again, I worry that we women are encouraging ourselves (and each other) to ignore facts and science, in favor of hope and luck. Everyone thinks that they'll be the exception, but very few actually are.
I actually don't have my hopes up when I read such posts. I am 39, have been trying to conceive since I was 35 without success. I was about to give up because I think I am too old now, but posts like this encourage me to give an IVF one last chance or at least keep trying naturally for another year or so.