Anonymous
Post 06/11/2026 16:26     Subject: Weird marriage - guy 21, girl 15
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Op here again. She wasn't pregnant and they are both Hispanic from a blue collar family. this is what both of them wanted but I am surprised that girls' mom and step-dad allowed that.


I live in an area that’s about 75% Hispanic, most of my friends and my xH are Hispanic.

This isn’t uncommon. I know multiple women who dated older men as teenagers and ended up married to them very young. My best friend started dating her husband when she was 15 and he was in his 20s. My nanny was married by 18.

Many parents don’t really care, it’s just culturally accepted that girls get pregnant/married very young.

As PPs pointed out, it may not be a legal marriage. Hopefully not. Or perhaps she was pregnant but miscarried.

Personally I think it’s gross. I remember being 21 and the thought of dating a 15 year old would have been so gross to me.


Definitely very prevalent in hispanic and S American culture and not Ok to be pushing minor girls towards marrying older men. I guess the parents and mom thinks that it is ok and their daughter would be settled but it also brings a generational shift in how their family is being raised and what they could achieve in this world. Your own growth and progress is done if you marry at that age and you would always be dependent on your man. Yikes
Anonymous
Post 06/11/2026 16:23     Subject: Weird marriage - guy 21, girl 15
This is messed up though. I wonder how this is even allowed in today's society. why are older men above 20-25 are not in jail for dating minors?
Anonymous
Post 06/11/2026 08:40     Subject: Weird marriage - guy 21, girl 15
Anonymous wrote:I saw something really strange recently in PA. The guy is almost 21 and girl just turned 15 and they got married. Is it even allowed? I thought in some states it is ok after parental consent but that is very young for a girl to be getting married. It doesn't matter but can tell you the demographics if it helps with the cultural background.


"weird?" I'd be more likely to say "gross" "illegal" "sick" "pedophilic" "wrong" "Disgusting" ... and so forth.
Anonymous
Post 06/11/2026 07:38     Subject: Weird marriage - guy 21, girl 15
Anonymous wrote:Op here again. She wasn't pregnant and they are both Hispanic from a blue collar family. this is what both of them wanted but I am surprised that girls' mom and step-dad allowed that.


I live in an area that’s about 75% Hispanic, most of my friends and my xH are Hispanic.

This isn’t uncommon. I know multiple women who dated older men as teenagers and ended up married to them very young. My best friend started dating her husband when she was 15 and he was in his 20s. My nanny was married by 18.

Many parents don’t really care, it’s just culturally accepted that girls get pregnant/married very young.

As PPs pointed out, it may not be a legal marriage. Hopefully not. Or perhaps she was pregnant but miscarried.

Personally I think it’s gross. I remember being 21 and the thought of dating a 15 year old would have been so gross to me.
Anonymous
Post 06/11/2026 00:51     Subject: Weird marriage - guy 21, girl 15
I knew a woman married at 17 to a 31 year old...then her husband convinced her god wanted her to shun her family because they questioned his religious authority. It's been 35 years since they've seen their daughter. I'm betting they regret giving permission for her to marry him now. they've never met their 3 grandchildren.
Anonymous
Post 06/10/2026 23:25     Subject: Weird marriage - guy 21, girl 15
That's not legal.

Why won't trolls do they're own fact checking first? Stop wasting our time.

Anonymous
Post 06/10/2026 23:18     Subject: Weird marriage - guy 21, girl 15
Anonymous wrote:Would it be considered statutory rape if guy is 21 and she is 15?


I think so. Law would be applied differently if they started dating when both were minors but usually the age gap of 2-3 years is ok
Anonymous
Post 06/10/2026 21:06     Subject: Weird marriage - guy 21, girl 15
Would it be considered statutory rape if guy is 21 and she is 15?
Anonymous
Post 06/10/2026 21:05     Subject: Weird marriage - guy 21, girl 15
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:They got married in the Catholic church?

I think you are mistaken on her age


Op here. yes, they got married in Catholic Church. I am very well aware of the age since they are our family's neighbor.


The church isn't going to marry them without a marriage license. If they were issued a license by the state, then someone must have used a fake ID.


has the law changed with time? was it much easier 25-30 years ago than now?
Anonymous
Post 06/10/2026 21:04     Subject: Weird marriage - guy 21, girl 15
Anonymous wrote:You can't legally marry under 18 in PA so someone is lying or wrong about the age. Either way, call the police and CPS


I checked and marriage at younger age is allowed with parental consent but 15 is too young. I think you can get married at 16 with parental consent.
Anonymous
Post 06/10/2026 20:47     Subject: Weird marriage - guy 21, girl 15
This is BS. This is illegal in PA. No church can’t allow it.
You are troll. Were you at the wedding? How do you know the girl is 15? Have you seen her ID.
She may look 15 but is 18.

Anonymous
Post 06/10/2026 19:46     Subject: Weird marriage - guy 21, girl 15
Anonymous wrote:I'm sure it is not legally approved by the state or otherwise recorded by the church. They probably got some scumbag priest to give them a ceremony and they are now "married in the eyes of God." Seen plenty of that in Latin America, normally for mistresses but don't see why it couldn't apply here.


I'd report it to the bishop. That's disgusting.
Anonymous
Post 06/10/2026 19:43     Subject: Weird marriage - guy 21, girl 15
I'm sure it is not legally approved by the state or otherwise recorded by the church. They probably got some scumbag priest to give them a ceremony and they are now "married in the eyes of God." Seen plenty of that in Latin America, normally for mistresses but don't see why it couldn't apply here.
Anonymous
Post 06/10/2026 19:23     Subject: Weird marriage - guy 21, girl 15
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:They got married in the Catholic church?

I think you are mistaken on her age


Op here. yes, they got married in Catholic Church. I am very well aware of the age since they are our family's neighbor.


The church isn't going to marry them without a marriage license. If they were issued a license by the state, then someone must have used a fake ID.
Anonymous
Post 06/10/2026 19:19     Subject: Weird marriage - guy 21, girl 15
Anonymous wrote:You can't legally marry under 18 in PA so someone is lying or wrong about the age. Either way, call the police and CPS


CPS first since one of them is a minor. Please update us, OP.