Anonymous wrote:Try Gemini.

Anonymous wrote:Try Gemini.

Anonymous wrote:Yeah it's the kind of thing you have to just carve out of your budget if you really need it. You can go every other week, though that's still $500 a month. You do that for two years, that's easily $10,000. But you have to think of like a non-negotiable necessity, like buying a new car or getting a new roof or paying the deductibles for cancer treatment. Even just a year will be helpful, and two should be enough to get you over the hump. Therapy saved my life and made me a much better parent and spouse.

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Anonymous wrote:Yes, OP, it’s a big problem in the dc area. I hear friends in other parts of the country don’t have this issue. The therapists there take insurance.

Insurance companies are assaulting therapists and here even if a therapist sees 40 clients a week —which isn’t possible to do well in my opinion—they are not making enough to live off.

Assaulting financially.

I charge more than $250 so that I can be fully present to my clients who mostly have ptsd and not be frustrated by trying to get insurance reimbursements and filing papers. I also charge this so that I am not so burnt out and I can live fairly comfortably. My caseload is smaller and my clients get better. My focus is trauma and my certification and 18 years of experience is DBT.

I have a client who was being treated for bipolar by their psychiatrist for a decade. Because I’m fully present and listening to what clients are saying and not saying and because I have the space to reflect on them and to consider what makes sense and what doesn’t —I saw that this person doesn’t have a mood disorder but they are having emotional issues, past suicide attempts and troubled work performance bc they have/had untreated ADD.

I and the client reached out to the psychiatrist and they are doing remarkably better on a stimulant —than ever. If I were taking insurance and seeing more individuals this person likely would never have determined the issue and been able to address it. Her self esteem and confidence and reduced anxiety is a joy to witness

It’s unfortunate that you have to be rich in the dc area to get mental health care.

You don't. You can also be poor. But middle class, that's problematic.

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Anonymous wrote:Yes, OP, it’s a big problem in the dc area. I hear friends in other parts of the country don’t have this issue. The therapists there take insurance.

Insurance companies are assaulting therapists and here even if a therapist sees 40 clients a week —which isn’t possible to do well in my opinion—they are not making enough to live off.

Assaulting financially.

I charge more than $250 so that I can be fully present to my clients who mostly have ptsd and not be frustrated by trying to get insurance reimbursements and filing papers. I also charge this so that I am not so burnt out and I can live fairly comfortably. My caseload is smaller and my clients get better. My focus is trauma and my certification and 18 years of experience is DBT.

I have a client who was being treated for bipolar by their psychiatrist for a decade. Because I’m fully present and listening to what clients are saying and not saying and because I have the space to reflect on them and to consider what makes sense and what doesn’t —I saw that this person doesn’t have a mood disorder but they are having emotional issues, past suicide attempts and troubled work performance bc they have/had untreated ADD.

I and the client reached out to the psychiatrist and they are doing remarkably better on a stimulant —than ever. If I were taking insurance and seeing more individuals this person likely would never have determined the issue and been able to address it. Her self esteem and confidence and reduced anxiety is a joy to witness

It’s unfortunate that you have to be rich in the dc area to get mental health care.

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Anonymous wrote:Yes, OP, it’s a big problem in the dc area. I hear friends in other parts of the country don’t have this issue. The therapists there take insurance.

Insurance companies are assaulting therapists and here even if a therapist sees 40 clients a week —which isn’t possible to do well in my opinion—they are not making enough to live off.

Assaulting financially.

I charge more than $250 so that I can be fully present to my clients who mostly have ptsd and not be frustrated by trying to get insurance reimbursements and filing papers. I also charge this so that I am not so burnt out and I can live fairly comfortably. My caseload is smaller and my clients get better. My focus is trauma and my certification and 18 years of experience is DBT.

I have a client who was being treated for bipolar by their psychiatrist for a decade. Because I’m fully present and listening to what clients are saying and not saying and because I have the space to reflect on them and to consider what makes sense and what doesn’t —I saw that this person doesn’t have a mood disorder but they are having emotional issues, past suicide attempts and troubled work performance bc they have/had untreated ADD.

I and the client reached out to the psychiatrist and they are doing remarkably better on a stimulant —than ever. If I were taking insurance and seeing more individuals this person likely would never have determined the issue and been able to address it. Her self esteem and confidence and reduced anxiety is a joy to witness

Anonymous wrote:OP i completely sympathize. I have also been through some terrible therapists (one even no showed multiple times.). My most recent one spent a lot of time telling me about their own family. Not great.
It's a struggle on top of the capital I "issues". You are not alone.

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Anonymous wrote:I think therapy is mostly useless. Medication at least for sure helps symptoms and its usually covered by insurance.

Therapy does help people who are self-aware enough that they need therapy, but not self-aware enough to deal with their problems, or who have such severe problems that they are unable to help themselves. I do agree with you that I think a majority of the population in therapy could do the work entirely by themselves - except they don't want to and prefer to pay to feel accompanied, and why not, if they can afford it?

I also think that many people default to therapy when in reality they or their loves ones should be in psychiatric care, getting their diagnoses and pharmaceuticals. So many parents I know prefer to think their kids needs "talk therapy" when in reality they need meds for ADHD and behavioral training for autism (which is not the same thing as therapy).

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Anonymous wrote:Yes, OP, it’s a big problem in the dc area. I hear friends in other parts of the country don’t have this issue. The therapists there take insurance.

Insurance companies are assaulting therapists and here even if a therapist sees 40 clients a week —which isn’t possible to do well in my opinion—they are not making enough to live off.

Anonymous wrote:Yes, OP, it’s a big problem in the dc area. I hear friends in other parts of the country don’t have this issue. The therapists there take insurance.