Anonymous
Post 05/21/2026 10:01     Subject: Re:Men and women who are 40+; what’s your dating experience like?
60F, not looking to get remarried. Plenty of fish in the sea - late 50s/early 60s there are a lot of single men for the same reason I'm now single. I think dating apps are hilarious and take them with a grain of salt, not as a way to find my soulmate. Works for me.
Anonymous
Post 05/21/2026 10:00     Subject: Men and women who are 40+; what’s your dating experience like?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Way more popular in fifties than twenties. Still capable of having heart broken but rebounds are kinda fun.

I'm a man with a good job, I'm height weight proportional, I have a full head of hair, and I can have a conversation and listen. Divorced for a while. I prefer exclusive relationships but don't want to get married again, and I have to say that non-exclusive relationships can be pretty good in many ways, not just sex.

Women my own age usually say they struggle. They can get sex but many can't get long term commitment from a man they respect.



Commitment to what ? That you won’t put your D into other P? That’s very easy to find. But if you don’t want to remarry you won’t ever be truly committed to anyone. Therefore, your other commitments are not worth time of LTR. I would only date someone like that non-exclusively with religious protection for all sex acts


I do not want to remarry. I'm not absolutely set against it but I'll be surprised if I remarry. My ex became lazy toward the relationship after we got married.
Anonymous
Post 05/21/2026 08:38     Subject: Men and women who are 40+; what’s your dating experience like?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:47M here - It's been adult Disneyland for me.


Must be tall and rich.


Not tall, average 5' 10". I am wealthy but they don't know that until they come to my house. Then it's hard to keep it a secret.


Are they wealthy/own houses?


Only one woman I dated was/seemed wealthy and owned a very nice home but that relationship didn't last. Some were doing well financially as far as I could tell and either rented or owned, and a few seemed to be just getting by and rented/owned. Their financial position wasn't really a factor for me.


Your financial position is clearly a factor for thee willingness to have sex quickly. They think you are a meal ticket to nicer lifestyle. Women who don’t think so /wealthy on their own won’t rush to bed before getting to know you well and if you are worthy to be added to their close circle
Anonymous
Post 05/21/2026 07:27     Subject: Men and women who are 40+; what’s your dating experience like?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:47M here - It's been adult Disneyland for me.


Must be tall and rich.


Not tall, average 5' 10". I am wealthy but they don't know that until they come to my house. Then it's hard to keep it a secret.


Are they wealthy/own houses?


Only one woman I dated was/seemed wealthy and owned a very nice home but that relationship didn't last. Some were doing well financially as far as I could tell and either rented or owned, and a few seemed to be just getting by and rented/owned. Their financial position wasn't really a factor for me.
Anonymous
Post 05/20/2026 23:46     Subject: Men and women who are 40+; what’s your dating experience like?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:47M here - It's been adult Disneyland for me.


Must be tall and rich.


Not tall, average 5' 10". I am wealthy but they don't know that until they come to my house. Then it's hard to keep it a secret.


Are they wealthy/own houses?
Anonymous
Post 05/20/2026 20:32     Subject: Men and women who are 40+; what’s your dating experience like?
I mean, why wouldn’t you divorce your wife and family. This is the life!
Anonymous
Post 05/20/2026 20:05     Subject: Men and women who are 40+; what’s your dating experience like?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:47M here - It's been adult Disneyland for me.


Must be tall and rich.


Not tall, average 5' 10". I am wealthy but they don't know that until they come to my house. Then it's hard to keep it a secret.
Anonymous
Post 05/20/2026 18:38     Subject: Men and women who are 40+; what’s your dating experience like?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:47M here - It's been adult Disneyland for me.


yes women late 20s to early 40s ready to perform 3somes and reverse gangbangs, i need to do cardio to keep up.


Don’t believe a word of it (in DC ?? lol)
Anonymous
Post 05/20/2026 18:26     Subject: Men and women who are 40+; what’s your dating experience like?
Anonymous wrote:What is it like for you?

It's amazing. I really feel like I'm living my best life at 45. Dating in my 40s is way more fun than it was in my 20s when I didn't have any money.
I'm doing well financially, and I can date really beautiful women that I couldn't have dated when I was younger.
Anonymous
Post 05/20/2026 18:09     Subject: Men and women who are 40+; what’s your dating experience like?
Anonymous wrote:47M here - It's been adult Disneyland for me.


yes women late 20s to early 40s ready to perform 3somes and reverse gangbangs, i need to do cardio to keep up.
Anonymous
Post 05/20/2026 18:08     Subject: Men and women who are 40+; what’s your dating experience like?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:47M here - It's been adult Disneyland for me.


Same! So much attention, it’s amazing to be this popular and treated so well.


Are you getting laid or just getting “attention”?
Anonymous
Post 05/20/2026 17:39     Subject: Men and women who are 40+; what’s your dating experience like?
Anonymous wrote:47M here - It's been adult Disneyland for me.


Same! So much attention, it’s amazing to be this popular and treated so well.
Anonymous
Post 05/20/2026 17:38     Subject: Men and women who are 40+; what’s your dating experience like?
No kids to hear issues about, no house or yard to hear issues about, just work and play.
Sure I have to take women out for drinks and dinner but that’s been fast and easy.
Anonymous
Post 05/20/2026 17:37     Subject: Men and women who are 40+; what’s your dating experience like?
Glorious
Anonymous
Post 05/20/2026 17:36     Subject: Men and women who are 40+; what’s your dating experience like?
Anonymous wrote:47M here - It's been adult Disneyland for me.


Must be tall and rich.