Anonymous
05/12/2026 13:33
Subject: I got zero for Mother's day
OP, you don't tell him the day of
You express your expectation earlier
You express your expectation earlier
Anonymous
05/12/2026 13:32
Subject: I got zero for Mother's day
Don’t do anything for the daughter’s next birthday and see how she responds.
Anonymous
05/12/2026 13:29
Subject: I got zero for Mother's day
Anonymous wrote:Does your DH care about Fathers Day?
hope not!
Anonymous
05/12/2026 13:11
Subject: I got zero for Mother's day
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OMG people. Every selfish husband is not on the spectrum. Stop that
Why? It explains so much. Is he generally a bad person or is gift giving not his love language?
I would describe him as sweet, but lazy in the home. His mamma did EVERYTHING for him. Still not sure how he felt okay leaving me dry on Mothers Day but he dis.
That's your man! You couldn't wait to get down the aisle with him.
Thank you for this.
Anonymous
05/12/2026 11:29
Subject: I got zero for Mother's day
Does your DH care about Fathers Day?
Anonymous
05/12/2026 11:25
Subject: I got zero for Mother's day
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OMG people. Every selfish husband is not on the spectrum. Stop that
Why? It explains so much. Is he generally a bad person or is gift giving not his love language?
I would describe him as sweet, but lazy in the home. His mamma did EVERYTHING for him. Still not sure how he felt okay leaving me dry on Mothers Day but he dis.
That's your man! You couldn't wait to get down the aisle with him.
Anonymous
05/12/2026 11:25
Subject: I got zero for Mother's day
Anonymous wrote:We cannot accept your complain, as it's 2 days late.
Also, had it been received on Mother's Day, you would have been criticized anyway, for the usual reasons:
1. Mother's Day is not important.
2. You need to tell your family want you want to do, and most of the time, you need to make it happen yourself.
Nobody did anything for me either last Sunday - husband was sick, teens were preparing for exams. And guess what? I had a wonderful day anyway, because I know my family loves me, and performative expressions of their love at an arbitrarily chosen moment in time means nothing.
Get over it, OP.
gee, misery loves company as they say
Anonymous
05/12/2026 11:24
Subject: I got zero for Mother's day
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OMG people. Every selfish husband is not on the spectrum. Stop that
Why? It explains so much. Is he generally a bad person or is gift giving not his love language?
I would describe him as sweet, but lazy in the home. His mamma did EVERYTHING for him. Still not sure how he felt okay leaving me dry on Mothers Day but he dis.
Anonymous
05/12/2026 11:23
Subject: I got zero for Mother's day
Anonymous wrote:I think I will schedule email reminders, to go out a year from now, reminding DH to do something for me for Mothers Day. I will also buy online cards for myself - the kind I can schedule so at least I get a few cards. I can pretend they are from my mother and a friend. Maybe I can schedule flowers too.
If I did all this it would mean nothing to me and I'd feel stupid. Seriously.
Anonymous
05/12/2026 11:22
Subject: I got zero for Mother's day
We cannot accept your complain, as it's 2 days late.
Also, had it been received on Mother's Day, you would have been criticized anyway, for the usual reasons:
1. Mother's Day is not important.
2. You need to tell your family want you want to do, and most of the time, you need to make it happen yourself.
Nobody did anything for me either last Sunday - husband was sick, teens were preparing for exams. And guess what? I had a wonderful day anyway, because I know my family loves me, and performative expressions of their love at an arbitrarily chosen moment in time means nothing.
Get over it, OP.
Also, had it been received on Mother's Day, you would have been criticized anyway, for the usual reasons:
1. Mother's Day is not important.
2. You need to tell your family want you want to do, and most of the time, you need to make it happen yourself.
Nobody did anything for me either last Sunday - husband was sick, teens were preparing for exams. And guess what? I had a wonderful day anyway, because I know my family loves me, and performative expressions of their love at an arbitrarily chosen moment in time means nothing.
Get over it, OP.
Anonymous
05/12/2026 11:22
Subject: I got zero for Mother's day
I think I will schedule email reminders, to go out a year from now, reminding DH to do something for me for Mothers Day. I will also buy online cards for myself - the kind I can schedule so at least I get a few cards. I can pretend they are from my mother and a friend. Maybe I can schedule flowers too.
Anonymous
05/12/2026 11:20
Subject: I got zero for Mother's day
Anonymous wrote:OMG people. Every selfish husband is not on the spectrum. Stop that
Why? It explains so much. Is he generally a bad person or is gift giving not his love language?
Anonymous
05/12/2026 11:19
Subject: I got zero for Mother's day
Anonymous wrote:Why is he this issue? This is on your daughter. You are not him mom.
The apples never fall far from the tree yet year after year the same disappointment and shock.
Anonymous
05/12/2026 11:19
Subject: I got zero for Mother's day
OMG people. Every selfish husband is not on the spectrum. Stop that
Anonymous
05/12/2026 11:19
Subject: I got zero for Mother's day
Why is he this issue? This is on your daughter. You are not him mom.