Anonymous
Post 04/30/2026 13:37     Subject: Why do women take it so personal when they are single?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I guess first time in history, women don't need men. Its possible logistically, financially and socially to live and travel alone. They have hookups, porn and sex gadgets to statist themselves. Inly thing needed is companionship which they can get from family, friends and social media. They can get sperms and embryos from fertility banks to become moms, even delegate whole thing to surrogates and nannies.


Don't forget pharmaceuticals. Lots of women on anti anxiety/depression meds to get them through their male-less paradise.


I suspect that more married women need them than singles.
Anonymous
Post 04/30/2026 13:37     Subject: Why do women take it so personal when they are single?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I guess first time in history, women don't need men. Its possible logistically, financially and socially to live and travel alone. They have hookups, porn and sex gadgets to statist themselves. Inly thing needed is companionship which they can get from family, friends and social media. They can get sperms and embryos from fertility banks to become moms, even delegate whole thing to surrogates and nannies.


Don't forget pharmaceuticals. Lots of women on anti anxiety/depression meds to get them through their male-less paradise.


And lots of married women are on meds as well so they can deal with their husbands. 🤷‍♀️
Anonymous
Post 04/30/2026 13:36     Subject: Why do women take it so personal when they are single?
What are you talking about?
Anonymous
Post 04/30/2026 13:15     Subject: Why do women take it so personal when they are single?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I think the pendulum is swinging over to people wondering what is wrong with a woman if she chooses to get married to a heterosexual man.

I mean, it’s fine, no judgement. I don’t think there is anything wrong with any individual who chooses to live this lifestyle. It just seems kind of sad overall.


I'm married to a man and honestly, I feel this. Sometimes I feel like a sucker.

It was easier to have kids with a husband, I'll say that. But I have three different friends who went the single-mom-by-choice route. Higher up front costs but it honestly seems easier in the long run.


I agree that it is easier to have kids with a husband.
But anytime a woman who doesn’t want kids or is done having kids gets into a serious relationship with a man, I’m like “why?”



Because men are wonderful! What am I missing?
Anonymous
Post 04/30/2026 12:54     Subject: Why do women take it so personal when they are single?
Anonymous wrote:I guess first time in history, women don't need men. Its possible logistically, financially and socially to live and travel alone. They have hookups, porn and sex gadgets to statist themselves. Inly thing needed is companionship which they can get from family, friends and social media. They can get sperms and embryos from fertility banks to become moms, even delegate whole thing to surrogates and nannies.


Don't forget pharmaceuticals. Lots of women on anti anxiety/depression meds to get them through their male-less paradise.
Anonymous
Post 04/30/2026 12:41     Subject: Why do women take it so personal when they are single?
Anonymous wrote:Because our culture has spent decades telling women that it's on them to attract a man, not the other way around, and teaching them that they are never good enough, that there is always some flaw that needs fixing.


They have to wear you down so they can sell you the stuff to build you back up.
Anonymous
Post 04/30/2026 09:29     Subject: Why do women take it so personal when they are single?
I guess first time in history, women don't need men. Its possible logistically, financially and socially to live and travel alone. They have hookups, porn and sex gadgets to statist themselves. Inly thing needed is companionship which they can get from family, friends and social media. They can get sperms and embryos from fertility banks to become moms, even delegate whole thing to surrogates and nannies.
Anonymous
Post 04/30/2026 09:15     Subject: Why do women take it so personal when they are single?
Anonymous wrote:Why do women take it so personal when they are single? I don't think there is anything wrong with any woman at any age if she has been looking and hasn't found anyone.


1. Society 2. Biological clock
Anonymous
Post 04/30/2026 07:32     Subject: Why do women take it so personal when they are single?
I honestly don't even know what you mean by this. Take WHAT personally? The fact that they are single? How can you take that personally, what does that even look like? I might take it personally if you keep throwing it in my face: "Hey Larla, you dumb britch! You're single!!! hahahahahahah"

But aside from that, I'm not sure what the issue is there.
Anonymous
Post 04/29/2026 10:10     Subject: Why do women take it so personal when they are single?
I don't take the mere fact of being single personally. I do take HOW this came to be very personally. So if someone is prickly about being single, perhaps it is more to do with what they've been through and less about the singleness itself.

Now that I find myself single, I plan to stay here indefinitely.
Anonymous
Post 04/28/2026 17:40     Subject: Why do women take it so personal when they are single?
because a lot of them don't have enough self- esteem or dependent on men for some of the basic things.
Anonymous
Post 04/23/2026 13:48     Subject: Why do women take it so personal when they are single?
I don’t know. If I look back at all the men I’ve dated, I think it’s a miracle any of us settle for any of them.
Anonymous
Post 04/23/2026 10:13     Subject: Why do women take it so personal when they are single?
Anonymous wrote:Why do women take it so personal when they are single? I don't think there is anything wrong with any woman at any age if she has been looking and hasn't found anyone.


They don't?

What they mind is people commenting on their singleness, including posts like this.

I've been married 25 years but I was the last of my friends to marry.
Anonymous
Post 04/23/2026 09:29     Subject: Why do women take it so personal when they are single?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I think the pendulum is swinging over to people wondering what is wrong with a woman if she chooses to get married to a heterosexual man.

I mean, it’s fine, no judgement. I don’t think there is anything wrong with any individual who chooses to live this lifestyle. It just seems kind of sad overall.


I'm married to a man and honestly, I feel this. Sometimes I feel like a sucker.

It was easier to have kids with a husband, I'll say that. But I have three different friends who went the single-mom-by-choice route. Higher up front costs but it honestly seems easier in the long run.


I agree that it is easier to have kids with a husband.
But anytime a woman who doesn’t want kids or is done having kids gets into a serious relationship with a man, I’m like “why?”
Anonymous
Post 04/23/2026 07:44     Subject: Why do women take it so personal when they are single?
Because our culture has spent decades telling women that it's on them to attract a man, not the other way around, and teaching them that they are never good enough, that there is always some flaw that needs fixing.