Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I think it’s funny how the tables have turned. Duke is no longer fun because it’s filled with nerdy Asian students while UChicago, by admitting rich white kids, is now fun.
Agreed. But wouldn’t be so sure the rich white kids going to Chicago are barrels of fun. My rich white kid toured UChicago and it was WAY too nerdy for him. I suspect the Sidwell kids picking Chicago tend towards the nerdy side.
From what I saw, they were extremely polite (we were asked if we needed help finding something constantly on campus, on NO other campus did this happen) passionate/driven in their discipline (extremely impressive) and the math courses are some of the most popular (still wonderfully nerdy) but my daughter commented the kids looked very impressive (well put together, adorable). Has everything you can want. Decent, nerdy/intellectual, clean cut, passionate kids. This is what I want my kid to be versus watching football and getting drunk all weekend, sorry to those that disagree. The campus was one of the nicest we toured, just gorgeous, and with a great sense of fun, with all the on campus coffee shops, free milkshakes, swings in the food hall, house culture.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I think it’s funny how the tables have turned. Duke is no longer fun because it’s filled with nerdy Asian students while UChicago, by admitting rich white kids, is now fun.
Agreed. But wouldn’t be so sure the rich white kids going to Chicago are barrels of fun. My rich white kid toured UChicago and it was WAY too nerdy for him. I suspect the Sidwell kids picking Chicago tend towards the nerdy side.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Well, I wish we lived in a world where Brazilian and Portuguese Studies, Art History and Museum Theory, and Medieval and Renaissance Studies were anything but hobby majors for those with inherited wealth. But alas, it's 2026 and not 1926.
These are uncertain times for 18-22 year olds. It's not unreasonable for them to want degrees that lead to decent jobs and opportunities. I'm assuming parents here are my age and did fine with English and History degrees. But that is not the world today unless you go law school, and who wants to be a lawyer these days. Otherwise, it's barista for you with those degrees.
My kids study engineering and economics at Duke equivalent T20 schools. From meeting their friends, these are incredibly bright and curious kids, especially the engineers. Those engineering kids are probably better read than any other students. It takes a lot of curiosity and discipline to get through an engineering degree at a top school. And that follows through to other parts of their lives.
People dismissing engineering students today are living in another era. Those kids are the smart ones, and they are working in a field that values curiosity, cooperation, and problem-solving. Reading well is a side hobby. And that's ok.
Very wrong here. Spend a lot of time reading. It is the crux of my job other than managing other ppl - that and then analyzing what I read.
- $3.6 HHI and net worth over 40m
p.s. encouraging both of my college kids to study the humanities (one did that and already has IB offer).
IB is more likely to hire the engineering kids today. It's still a miserable life when you're 23.
My Ivy humanities kid is 21. Has that IB offer too? Not sure there's "one path" or the right one.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Well, I wish we lived in a world where Brazilian and Portuguese Studies, Art History and Museum Theory, and Medieval and Renaissance Studies were anything but hobby majors for those with inherited wealth. But alas, it's 2026 and not 1926.
These are uncertain times for 18-22 year olds. It's not unreasonable for them to want degrees that lead to decent jobs and opportunities. I'm assuming parents here are my age and did fine with English and History degrees. But that is not the world today unless you go law school, and who wants to be a lawyer these days. Otherwise, it's barista for you with those degrees.
My kids study engineering and economics at Duke equivalent T20 schools. From meeting their friends, these are incredibly bright and curious kids, especially the engineers. Those engineering kids are probably better read than any other students. It takes a lot of curiosity and discipline to get through an engineering degree at a top school. And that follows through to other parts of their lives.
People dismissing engineering students today are living in another era. Those kids are the smart ones, and they are working in a field that values curiosity, cooperation, and problem-solving. Reading well is a side hobby. And that's ok.
Very wrong here. Spend a lot of time reading. It is the crux of my job other than managing other ppl - that and then analyzing what I read.
- $3.6 HHI and net worth over 40m
p.s. encouraging both of my college kids to study the humanities (one did that and already has IB offer).
IB is more likely to hire the engineering kids today. It's still a miserable life when you're 23.
My Ivy humanities kid is 21. Has that IB offer too? Not sure there's "one path" or the right one.
Anonymous wrote:Well, I wish we lived in a world where Brazilian and Portuguese Studies, Art History and Museum Theory, and Medieval and Renaissance Studies were anything but hobby majors for those with inherited wealth. But alas, it's 2026 and not 1926.
These are uncertain times for 18-22 year olds. It's not unreasonable for them to want degrees that lead to decent jobs and opportunities. I'm assuming parents here are my age and did fine with English and History degrees. But that is not the world today unless you go law school, and who wants to be a lawyer these days. Otherwise, it's barista for you with those degrees.
My kids study engineering and economics at Duke equivalent T20 schools. From meeting their friends, these are incredibly bright and curious kids, especially the engineers. Those engineering kids are probably better read than any other students. It takes a lot of curiosity and discipline to get through an engineering degree at a top school. And that follows through to other parts of their lives.
People dismissing engineering students today are living in another era. Those kids are the smart ones, and they are working in a field that values curiosity, cooperation, and problem-solving. Reading well is a side hobby. And that's ok.
Anonymous wrote:I think it’s funny how the tables have turned. Duke is no longer fun because it’s filled with nerdy Asian students while UChicago, by admitting rich white kids, is now fun.
Anonymous wrote:Interesting! The recent duke admits of non legacy/non connected kids that I know are bright, 'quirky', and deep into climate/environmental sustainability. Not typical duke admits. Our school/area sends a lot of kids to duke. My observation is very anecdotal, but makes sense given what OP shared. On a related note, most kids at our school have strong humanities narratives on their app but switch to econ or other oversubscribed majors when they get there...
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Well, I wish we lived in a world where Brazilian and Portuguese Studies, Art History and Museum Theory, and Medieval and Renaissance Studies were anything but hobby majors for those with inherited wealth. But alas, it's 2026 and not 1926.
These are uncertain times for 18-22 year olds. It's not unreasonable for them to want degrees that lead to decent jobs and opportunities. I'm assuming parents here are my age and did fine with English and History degrees. But that is not the world today unless you go law school, and who wants to be a lawyer these days. Otherwise, it's barista for you with those degrees.
My kids study engineering and economics at Duke equivalent T20 schools. From meeting their friends, these are incredibly bright and curious kids, especially the engineers. Those engineering kids are probably better read than any other students. It takes a lot of curiosity and discipline to get through an engineering degree at a top school. And that follows through to other parts of their lives.
People dismissing engineering students today are living in another era. Those kids are the smart ones, and they are working in a field that values curiosity, cooperation, and problem-solving. Reading well is a side hobby. And that's ok.
Very wrong here. Spend a lot of time reading. It is the crux of my job other than managing other ppl - that and then analyzing what I read.
- $3.6 HHI and net worth over 40m
p.s. encouraging both of my college kids to study the humanities (one did that and already has IB offer).
IB is more likely to hire the engineering kids today. It's still a miserable life when you're 23.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Well, I wish we lived in a world where Brazilian and Portuguese Studies, Art History and Museum Theory, and Medieval and Renaissance Studies were anything but hobby majors for those with inherited wealth. But alas, it's 2026 and not 1926.
These are uncertain times for 18-22 year olds. It's not unreasonable for them to want degrees that lead to decent jobs and opportunities. I'm assuming parents here are my age and did fine with English and History degrees. But that is not the world today unless you go law school, and who wants to be a lawyer these days. Otherwise, it's barista for you with those degrees.
My kids study engineering and economics at Duke equivalent T20 schools. From meeting their friends, these are incredibly bright and curious kids, especially the engineers. Those engineering kids are probably better read than any other students. It takes a lot of curiosity and discipline to get through an engineering degree at a top school. And that follows through to other parts of their lives.
People dismissing engineering students today are living in another era. Those kids are the smart ones, and they are working in a field that values curiosity, cooperation, and problem-solving. Reading well is a side hobby. And that's ok.
Very wrong here. Spend a lot of time reading. It is the crux of my job other than managing other ppl - that and then analyzing what I read.
- $3.6 HHI and net worth over 40m
p.s. encouraging both of my college kids to study the humanities (one did that and already has IB offer).
Anonymous wrote:Well, I wish we lived in a world where Brazilian and Portuguese Studies, Art History and Museum Theory, and Medieval and Renaissance Studies were anything but hobby majors for those with inherited wealth. But alas, it's 2026 and not 1926.
These are uncertain times for 18-22 year olds. It's not unreasonable for them to want degrees that lead to decent jobs and opportunities. I'm assuming parents here are my age and did fine with English and History degrees. But that is not the world today unless you go law school, and who wants to be a lawyer these days. Otherwise, it's barista for you with those degrees.
My kids study engineering and economics at Duke equivalent T20 schools. From meeting their friends, these are incredibly bright and curious kids, especially the engineers. Those engineering kids are probably better read than any other students. It takes a lot of curiosity and discipline to get through an engineering degree at a top school. And that follows through to other parts of their lives.
People dismissing engineering students today are living in another era. Those kids are the smart ones, and they are working in a field that values curiosity, cooperation, and problem-solving. Reading well is a side hobby. And that's ok.