Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP, make sure you can do full pay comfortably.
Since you and DH did not go to a SLAC and likely paid less for your education, make sure you and DH are in agreement that a SLAC is a reasonable choice. The worst outcome would be for you and DH, now and going forward, to compare/contrast and complain about your DH's college experience/cost.
OP
DH’s and my state-school education prepared us for two surprisingly lucrative careers (neither of us planned it this way) so we are lucky that we can pay for our DC’s education. Off topic but that’s another reason we are so focused on college fit now because from our own personal experiences (albeit n=2), we did very well professionally and have been competitive when up against HYP alums for opportunities throughout our careers.
Anonymous wrote:if you kid has a strong leaning, then that's that.
my only concern would be any counselor saying Williams/Pomona/Swat "are realistic reaches/targets". our HS has a track record too (not at every school) but still these schools accept far fewer than they reject. Vassar a bit easier. And they have ED2 so you could do ED1 to Pomona or Williams and then ED2 to Vassar
Anonymous wrote:OP, make sure you can do full pay comfortably.
Since you and DH did not go to a SLAC and likely paid less for your education, make sure you and DH are in agreement that a SLAC is a reasonable choice. The worst outcome would be for you and DH, now and going forward, to compare/contrast and complain about your DH's college experience/cost.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:It’s all relative, but even at a small LAC with under 2,000 students there will still likely be hundreds more per grade than in high school. Perhaps if you went to a huge high school it’s different. My DC has 200 in his senior class and is headed to a LAC with just under 3,000 total. From what I hear, that size has you run into people you know and people you have never seen everyday - good stuff.
My kids had 600 in their hs class. So most small lac have less students.
Fewer students. Mine has 85ish in her graduating class and chose a small (under 1500 total students LAC). She values the small individual class sizes (unlike the big schools where one lecture could be several times her entire HS graduating class), the research opportunities not being all sucked up by grad students and the opportunity to interact more closely with professors. She's a recruit, so expects that she'll find her people with the other athletes, but the smaller size actually allows more interaction and friendships with the "NARPs".
Anonymous wrote:Constraints to a small school: Seniors are on their way out so they are basically checked-out, focused on getting out of college and moving on. Then you have students away on study abroad. They aren't on campus. This affects the Juniors and Sophomores. That dwindles the numbers down. You have international students who may or may not make themselves available for close friendships. You may have some untraditional students, older returning to campus or have jobs or are part time. Less than at a university but maybe some. Freshmen are just figuring it out. Friendship can happen fast Freshmen year but can be fleeting because no one has found their footing. There's the Greek divide. I certainly wouldn't discount that. If participation is even 20%, you better pledge. Imho. The reason I say 20% is for all the above reasons mentioned - there are not as many students available for friendship, not as many as you might think.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:It’s all relative, but even at a small LAC with under 2,000 students there will still likely be hundreds more per grade than in high school. Perhaps if you went to a huge high school it’s different. My DC has 200 in his senior class and is headed to a LAC with just under 3,000 total. From what I hear, that size has you run into people you know and people you have never seen everyday - good stuff.
My kids had 600 in their hs class. So most small lac have less students.
Anonymous wrote:It’s all relative, but even at a small LAC with under 2,000 students there will still likely be hundreds more per grade than in high school. Perhaps if you went to a huge high school it’s different. My DC has 200 in his senior class and is headed to a LAC with just under 3,000 total. From what I hear, that size has you run into people you know and people you have never seen everyday - good stuff.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:if you kid has a strong leaning, then that's that.
my only concern would be any counselor saying Williams/Pomona/Swat "are realistic reaches/targets". our HS has a track record too (not at every school) but still these schools accept far fewer than they reject. Vassar a bit easier. And they have ED2 so you could do ED1 to Pomona or Williams and then ED2 to Vassar
OP obviously meant WSP as reaches and Vassar, Hamilton are targets. That’s not far fetched coming from a feeder private.