Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Stop marrying conservatives

NP My dh is conservative. He does chores nonstop and makes our boy and girls do equal chores. DH absolutely believes that both sexes can do equal amounts of chores and can do the same chores. DH is our main cook.

My extended family are old school conservatives (SAHM). The men and boys did nonstop, hard chores on a farm. The girls inside also did nonstop chores, just inside.

Most of the conservatives I know put women on a pedestal, respect them, and don't believe women are indentured servants.

HAHAHAHAHHAHAHAH

Except for when the women want to make a decision about their own bodies, am I right?

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Weaponized incompetence being taught to the boys.

OP, any particular reason you married this guy? Sounds like it's time to get out, particularly if these girls or boy are yours.

I married him because he’s a kind, handsome man, and he’s very well off.

Well now we know you're a troll. Nice try.

Anonymous wrote:My husband only gives chores to his two daughters, who are 12 and 14, but not his sons, who are 16 and 11. The girls are responsible for cleaning the kitchen, living areas, every night, and taking turns with the bathrooms and laundry. My husband insists that chores aren't something boys should do, and that his boys aren’t good at doing chores. My stepdaughters have been complaining about doing chores and think that it’s unfair, and they’ve shared their frustration with me. How would you handle this?

Your stepdaughters are right. But surely you knew this about this man before you married him?

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Stop marrying conservatives

The problem is being conservative is necessary, but not sufficient, for being a great husband.

WTF does this even mean?

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Weaponized incompetence being taught to the boys.

OP, any particular reason you married this guy? Sounds like it's time to get out, particularly if these girls or boy are yours.

I married him because he’s a kind, handsome man, and he’s very well off.

Kind men don’t behave like that.

+ a million. He is not kind at all. Are these your children? If not, I cannot believe you married him.

Gross.

In my house everyone makes one meal per week. I implemented that rule during Covid. They clean up what they cook too (that was a revised rule after a few very messy cooks).

Everyone does their own laundry, cleans their own room, and bathroom.

I mop and clean common areas, plus my own chores.

Anonymous wrote:My husband only gives chores to his two daughters, who are 12 and 14, but not his sons, who are 16 and 11. The girls are responsible for cleaning the kitchen, living areas, every night, and taking turns with the bathrooms and laundry. My husband insists that chores aren't something boys should do, and that his boys aren’t good at doing chores. My stepdaughters have been complaining about doing chores and think that it’s unfair, and they’ve shared their frustration with me. How would you handle this?

Not great. They probably cannot wait to get out of there. Do you work or get these gender-based assignments too?

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The way to get better at doing chores is to practice doing them.

Does your husband do chores in the house?

No, he doesn’t.

Do you? Who are the role models in the home that the kids see?

Yes, we also have a child together.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Weaponized incompetence being taught to the boys.

OP, any particular reason you married this guy? Sounds like it's time to get out, particularly if these girls or boy are yours.

I married him because he’s a kind, handsome man, and he’s very well off.

Kind men don’t behave like that.

This screams troll.

Stop cleaning up or cooking for him and the boys until everyone steps up and helps bb

Anonymous wrote:Stop marrying conservatives

NP My dh is conservative. He does chores nonstop and makes our boy and girls do equal chores. DH absolutely believes that both sexes can do equal amounts of chores and can do the same chores. DH is our main cook.

My extended family are old school conservatives (SAHM). The men and boys did nonstop, hard chores on a farm. The girls inside also did nonstop chores, just inside.

Most of the conservatives I know put women on a pedestal, respect them, and don't believe women are indentured servants.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The way to get better at doing chores is to practice doing them.

Does your husband do chores in the house?

No, he doesn’t.

Do you? Who are the role models in the home that the kids see?

Is their mother in the picture? Did she divorce him because he's a lazy chauvinist?

If so, I'd encourage the girls to push with living with their mom full time and then peace out (otherwise you'd be doing all the chores).

If this is real, you won't be allowed to have any say in how those children are being raised.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Weaponized incompetence being taught to the boys.

OP, any particular reason you married this guy? Sounds like it's time to get out, particularly if these girls or boy are yours.

I married him because he’s a kind, handsome man, and he’s very well off.

Then know your place and shut up. You knew what you were getting into. But I suspect you’re a troll.