Anonymous
03/18/2026 13:32
Subject: Re:She wants a very high-quality man—what are her chances
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Are you asking for someone you know?
Yes, a cousin. Forgot to add that she’s never worked and doesn’t plan to ever work.
She's never worked and doesn't plan to ever work, she hates cooking and cleaning, she's lazy with her chores, she doesn't drive, and has no hobbies, but she's willing to do whatever it takes to please her husband. What is her education level? Is she religious?
Honestly, she sounds like the pampered daughter of some wealthy foreign businessman. She probably grew up with nannies/governesses, housekeepers, cooks, and chauffeurs. If she is looking for a wealthy American husband that checks all of her boxes, I think she's going to run into some challenges. If she's looking for a conservative, wealthy foreign husband, she might have a better chance.
She's from a regular UMC New England family, currently a college student majoring in English and History, and isn't religious.
Wow! I am actually surprised that she is an American college student! I think she's going to have trouble attracting the caliber of man that she wants - aside from her looks, it doesn't seem like she has a whole lot to offer, not even the stereotypical traits of being a good cook and housekeeper. If she hates cooking and cleaning and is lazy with chores, I doubt she's going to magically become Susie Homemaker once she is married.
Anonymous
03/18/2026 13:30
Subject: She wants a very high-quality man—what are her chances?
As Judge Judy said, beauty fades but dumb is forever.
Anonymous
03/18/2026 13:27
Subject: She wants a very high-quality man—what are her chances?
It sounds like her appearance is all she has to offer, which is probably why she understands that she needs to marry early. What happens when a man picks her for her looks and then her looks go?
It also sounds like she's overly influenced by TikTok. If this person is real, she needs to go outside before it's too late.
It also sounds like she's overly influenced by TikTok. If this person is real, she needs to go outside before it's too late.
Anonymous
03/18/2026 13:26
Subject: Re:She wants a very high-quality man—what are her chances
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Are you asking for someone you know?
Yes, a cousin. Forgot to add that she’s never worked and doesn’t plan to ever work.
She's never worked and doesn't plan to ever work, she hates cooking and cleaning, she's lazy with her chores, she doesn't drive, and has no hobbies, but she's willing to do whatever it takes to please her husband. What is her education level? Is she religious?
Honestly, she sounds like the pampered daughter of some wealthy foreign businessman. She probably grew up with nannies/governesses, housekeepers, cooks, and chauffeurs. If she is looking for a wealthy American husband that checks all of her boxes, I think she's going to run into some challenges. If she's looking for a conservative, wealthy foreign husband, she might have a better chance.
She's from a regular UMC New England family, currently a college student majoring in English and History, and isn't religious.
It's really not okay to behave like this in UMC New England culture. She will have to marry someone from a different culture.
Anonymous
03/18/2026 13:26
Subject: Re:She wants a very high-quality man—what are her chances
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Are you asking for someone you know?
Yes, a cousin. Forgot to add that she’s never worked and doesn’t plan to ever work.
She's never worked and doesn't plan to ever work, she hates cooking and cleaning, she's lazy with her chores, she doesn't drive, and has no hobbies, but she's willing to do whatever it takes to please her husband. What is her education level? Is she religious?
Honestly, she sounds like the pampered daughter of some wealthy foreign businessman. She probably grew up with nannies/governesses, housekeepers, cooks, and chauffeurs. If she is looking for a wealthy American husband that checks all of her boxes, I think she's going to run into some challenges. If she's looking for a conservative, wealthy foreign husband, she might have a better chance.
She's from a regular UMC New England family, currently a college student majoring in English and History, and isn't religious.
Tell her to level up. She’s giving off Peggy Bundy vibes.
Anonymous
03/18/2026 13:24
Subject: She wants a very high-quality man—what are her chances?
Who is going to drive all the children around? Is she thinking she'll marry rich enough to have a driver?
Anonymous
03/18/2026 13:24
Subject: Re:She wants a very high-quality man—what are her chances
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Are you asking for someone you know?
Yes, a cousin. Forgot to add that she’s never worked and doesn’t plan to ever work.
She's never worked and doesn't plan to ever work, she hates cooking and cleaning, she's lazy with her chores, she doesn't drive, and has no hobbies, but she's willing to do whatever it takes to please her husband. What is her education level? Is she religious?
Honestly, she sounds like the pampered daughter of some wealthy foreign businessman. She probably grew up with nannies/governesses, housekeepers, cooks, and chauffeurs. If she is looking for a wealthy American husband that checks all of her boxes, I think she's going to run into some challenges. If she's looking for a conservative, wealthy foreign husband, she might have a better chance.
She's from a regular UMC New England family, currently a college student majoring in English and History, and isn't religious.
Anonymous
03/18/2026 13:23
Subject: She wants a very high-quality man—what are her chances?
She seems very low quality. Doesn't really bring anything to the table of substance.
Maybe in the deep south she can find a MAGA guy who only cares about looks but most young men now want a woman who also is quality and who can take on responsibilities and be more than a pretty face.
Maybe in the deep south she can find a MAGA guy who only cares about looks but most young men now want a woman who also is quality and who can take on responsibilities and be more than a pretty face.
Anonymous
03/18/2026 13:22
Subject: She wants a very high-quality man—what are her chances?
In the words of Carmela Soprano, "in a year, tops, ..."
Anonymous
03/18/2026 13:21
Subject: She wants a very high-quality man—what are her chances?
Tell your cousin that a man is not a plan. Lack of skills will come back to bite her if Mr. Perfect decides to trade her in for a midlife crisis.
Anonymous
03/18/2026 13:15
Subject: Re:She wants a very high-quality man—what are her chances?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Are you asking for someone you know?
Yes, a cousin. Forgot to add that she’s never worked and doesn’t plan to ever work.
She's never worked and doesn't plan to ever work, she hates cooking and cleaning, she's lazy with her chores, she doesn't drive, and has no hobbies, but she's willing to do whatever it takes to please her husband. What is her education level? Is she religious?
Honestly, she sounds like the pampered daughter of some wealthy foreign businessman. She probably grew up with nannies/governesses, housekeepers, cooks, and chauffeurs. If she is looking for a wealthy American husband that checks all of her boxes, I think she's going to run into some challenges. If she's looking for a conservative, wealthy foreign husband, she might have a better chance.
Anonymous
03/18/2026 13:08
Subject: She wants a very high-quality man—what are her chances?
You don't order a husband from the husband store. People can tell when someone is more interested in their box checking than them as a person.
Anonymous
03/18/2026 13:07
Subject: She wants a very high-quality man—what are her chances?
A lot of successful men want accomplished wives, even if they decide to SAH after kids.
Anonymous
03/18/2026 13:05
Subject: She wants a very high-quality man—what are her chances?
So she’s hot, young, kind of lazy, not successful or ambitious. Wants a tall, attractive, successful/wealthy man.
I would say decent chances depending on exact looks and money requirements. She might be disappointed on what lifestyle a sole breadwinner doctor might actually give her since at the low end they’re earning like 250k. She probably is envisioning a 750k+/yr lifestyle. She might need to compromise on looks or money slightly to maximize chances.
If she was both hot and successful her options would expand
I would say decent chances depending on exact looks and money requirements. She might be disappointed on what lifestyle a sole breadwinner doctor might actually give her since at the low end they’re earning like 250k. She probably is envisioning a 750k+/yr lifestyle. She might need to compromise on looks or money slightly to maximize chances.
If she was both hot and successful her options would expand
Anonymous
03/18/2026 13:03
Subject: She wants a very high-quality man—what are her chances?
She could become a second wife to an old rich guy.