Anonymous wrote:Not OP, but recommendations for really good, thorough, tough but not pot-stirrers, effective attorneys would be appreciated.

I did a lot of research and a few names came up in this category a lot (not sharks, but thorough , not named partners so less $ / still around $500/hour though)

Steven Goldman, David Ginsburg, Lynn Hawkins, Jennifer Bradley - I think all four are in the collaborative divorce association but note that method is time consuming and expensive - you can just do a normal divorce with them

Anonymous wrote:Not OP, but recommendations for really good, thorough, tough but not pot-stirrers, effective attorneys would be appreciated.

Rachel Virk in Sterling is good. She advocates for collaborative divorce. But she can also be a bulldog if needed.