Anonymous
03/13/2026 18:06
Subject: College counselor aiming too high
I mean, you can manufacture an entire linguistics or Latin Am studies or classics major (depending on language taken) in 6 months.....
Just give us intel. We can tell you what to do.
Just give us intel. We can tell you what to do.
Anonymous
03/13/2026 18:04
Subject: College counselor aiming too high
Anonymous wrote:My DS is going to be valedictorian or salutatorian at his competitive public high school in suburban Boston. After hearing horror stories from others, I have been prepping him to use ED wisely, not aim mit etc, and expect to not even get into t20 or most t40 schools rd. We just hired a college counselor who recommending keeping Harvard and Stanford on our teach list. Now he likely won’t Ed to a school like tufts thinking those schools could be possible. He is a full pay white boy and has no hook and lackluster ecs without leadership. Are these schools possible? Is this college counselor leading us to disappointment?
BOY VAL is almost a hook these days at the top schools: 60% of the app pool is female at T10/ivy yet they balance for gender thus better odds for boys, especially top boys. As long as coursework was max across all 5 core areas.
Anonymous
03/13/2026 17:58
Subject: College counselor aiming too high
Anonymous wrote:My DS is going to be valedictorian or salutatorian at his competitive public high school in suburban Boston. After hearing horror stories from others, I have been prepping him to use ED wisely, not aim mit etc, and expect to not even get into t20 or most t40 schools rd. We just hired a college counselor who recommending keeping Harvard and Stanford on our teach list. Now he likely won’t Ed to a school like tufts thinking those schools could be possible. He is a full pay white boy and has no hook and lackluster ecs without leadership. Are these schools possible? Is this college counselor leading us to disappointment?
Harvard favors Boston area publics, just as Penn favors Philly kids and Yale favors New Haven publics. Look at the school's Scoir data. That should tell you. Val/Sal is not nearly as important as being the student with the top rigor. Best is to have both. Lackluster ECs will hurt slightly.
Anonymous
03/13/2026 17:57
Subject: College counselor aiming too high
Anonymous wrote:This is a DMV-centered website. We don't know shit about suburban Boston public high schools. How are we supposed to know?
You're paying some dude to advise you. Listen to him. Not us.
You seem nice.
Anonymous
03/13/2026 17:51
Subject: Re:College counselor aiming too high
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I am a big believer in shooting for the stars. That being said, he will not get into Stanford, Harvard, or MIT with "lackluster ECs." He should apply broadly and I see no reason why he can't get into a top 25 if he has excellent grades and test scores and writes compelling essays. I would not recommend he ED to a school like Tufts if he does not absolutely love it.
WashU ED1
If you check the CDS for those where ECs are only considered, I think WashU ED works here......or UChicago ED1
Anonymous
03/13/2026 17:50
Subject: Re:College counselor aiming too high
Anonymous wrote:I am a big believer in shooting for the stars. That being said, he will not get into Stanford, Harvard, or MIT with "lackluster ECs." He should apply broadly and I see no reason why he can't get into a top 25 if he has excellent grades and test scores and writes compelling essays. I would not recommend he ED to a school like Tufts if he does not absolutely love it.
WashU ED1
Anonymous
03/13/2026 17:39
Subject: Re:College counselor aiming too high
One summer before senior year... not one year...
Anonymous
03/13/2026 17:39
Subject: College counselor aiming too high
Anonymous wrote:So damned weird that these people have to come to a DMV website for college admissions advice.
We're spoiled here in the DMV! These kinds of spaces are rare in 2026.
Jeff doing the lord's work lol
Anonymous
03/13/2026 17:39
Subject: College counselor aiming too high
Anonymous wrote:I assume he's a junior, right?
If so, he still has time to improve the "lackluster EC" part.
Why not help him find something really interesting to do this summer that he can write about in his supplemental essays?
If you share his intended major and more about his personality, I'm guessing people on here would have some good ideas for you.
For example, a 20 hour a week volunteer gig for 6 weeks this summer could do wonders for his profile, his applications, and him as a person, too!
120 hours of hands-on volunteering in a relatively compressed period of time is likely to lead to a genuine experience - something that impacts/changes him personally and gives him something real to reflect on while also helping others. There's something about going in day after day - rather than just popping in for an hour or two when convenient. Whether it's to haul/fill boxes for a non-profit food org, clean cages at a pet shelter, answer phones for a busy direct-service nonprofit, support an organization that is out in the community educating people about immigration and what to do if ICE shows up etc., these are win/win in terms of college apps and being a good person in the world.
Really? A thing thrown in one year before senior year? I mean that could help but it could also do nothing. It would depend on leadership, impact, etc. I just don't see it moving a needle in those areas in 6 weeks.
Anonymous
03/13/2026 16:39
Subject: College counselor aiming too high
So damned weird that these people have to come to a DMV website for college admissions advice.
Anonymous
03/13/2026 16:36
Subject: College counselor aiming too high
Anonymous wrote:Ask your local message board. We don't care.
If you can't say anything nice . . . .
Anonymous
03/13/2026 16:10
Subject: College counselor aiming too high
Anonymous wrote:Ask your local message board. We don't care.
Don't be a dickwad....your kid went to Towson yet you sit here all day pretending that they're at a top school. STRFU and let people try to help.
Anonymous
03/13/2026 16:10
Subject: College counselor aiming too high
I assume he's a junior, right?
If so, he still has time to improve the "lackluster EC" part.
Why not help him find something really interesting to do this summer that he can write about in his supplemental essays?
If you share his intended major and more about his personality, I'm guessing people on here would have some good ideas for you.
For example, a 20 hour a week volunteer gig for 6 weeks this summer could do wonders for his profile, his applications, and him as a person, too!
120 hours of hands-on volunteering in a relatively compressed period of time is likely to lead to a genuine experience - something that impacts/changes him personally and gives him something real to reflect on while also helping others. There's something about going in day after day - rather than just popping in for an hour or two when convenient. Whether it's to haul/fill boxes for a non-profit food org, clean cages at a pet shelter, answer phones for a busy direct-service nonprofit, support an organization that is out in the community educating people about immigration and what to do if ICE shows up etc., these are win/win in terms of college apps and being a good person in the world.
If so, he still has time to improve the "lackluster EC" part.
Why not help him find something really interesting to do this summer that he can write about in his supplemental essays?
If you share his intended major and more about his personality, I'm guessing people on here would have some good ideas for you.
For example, a 20 hour a week volunteer gig for 6 weeks this summer could do wonders for his profile, his applications, and him as a person, too!
120 hours of hands-on volunteering in a relatively compressed period of time is likely to lead to a genuine experience - something that impacts/changes him personally and gives him something real to reflect on while also helping others. There's something about going in day after day - rather than just popping in for an hour or two when convenient. Whether it's to haul/fill boxes for a non-profit food org, clean cages at a pet shelter, answer phones for a busy direct-service nonprofit, support an organization that is out in the community educating people about immigration and what to do if ICE shows up etc., these are win/win in terms of college apps and being a good person in the world.
Anonymous
03/13/2026 16:06
Subject: Re:College counselor aiming too high
Why did you hire this particular college counselor? Any particular reasons to believe they do or do not know their stuff?
Anonymous
03/13/2026 16:00
Subject: College counselor aiming too high
Anonymous wrote:Ask your school counselor where the last 5 valedictorian and salutatorians have gone. Your school will have better data than the private counselor.
That, although adjust for extra curriculars. My child is also valedictorian and was rejected from some top 10 schools his classmates - who were more active outside of school - got into.