Anonymous
Post 03/09/2026 06:34     Subject: Received VERY alarming text
How can a typo threaten gun violence? That makes no sense. Proceed with caution; you don’t really know her.
Anonymous
Post 03/09/2026 06:24     Subject: Received VERY alarming text
Anonymous wrote:Can you imagine a full grown adult man who is dating someone getting a typo-ridden text at 8:30 pm and instead of calling the person, immediately running to DCUM of all places in order to figure out what is going on and whether he is safe?

I feel so sad for all of the lost lambs in this world...


In my mind the OP is a woman dating a woman. I rarely assume a DCUM poster is a man.
Anonymous
Post 03/09/2026 06:17     Subject: Received VERY alarming text
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I’ve been dating a woman for 3 months. It’s been going well. Then out of the blue I got an insane text from her threatening gin violence. I am freaked out! We’ve never had an argument. I assume maybe she meant to send it to someone else? Either way I am freaked out, Would you just block and delete?

You really gotta be stupid for asking the question.
No, keep dating her. When you wake up with a gun pointing directly between your eyes, you’ll wish you blocked and deleted her number. 🤦‍♂️


I’m 97% sure she was joking with someone
Anonymous
Post 03/09/2026 06:14     Subject: Received VERY alarming text
Anonymous wrote:I’ve been dating a woman for 3 months. It’s been going well. Then out of the blue I got an insane text from her threatening gin violence. I am freaked out! We’ve never had an argument. I assume maybe she meant to send it to someone else? Either way I am freaked out, Would you just block and delete?

You really gotta be stupid for asking the question.
No, keep dating her. When you wake up with a gun pointing directly between your eyes, you’ll wish you blocked and deleted her number. 🤦‍♂️
Anonymous
Post 03/09/2026 01:30     Subject: Received VERY alarming text
Anonymous wrote:Can you imagine a full grown adult man who is dating someone getting a typo-ridden text at 8:30 pm and instead of calling the person, immediately running to DCUM of all places in order to figure out what is going on and whether he is safe?

I feel so sad for all of the lost lambs in this world...


Has to be a troll… right??
Anonymous
Post 03/08/2026 23:47     Subject: Received VERY alarming text
Can you imagine a full grown adult man who is dating someone getting a typo-ridden text at 8:30 pm and instead of calling the person, immediately running to DCUM of all places in order to figure out what is going on and whether he is safe?

I feel so sad for all of the lost lambs in this world...
Anonymous
Post 03/08/2026 23:45     Subject: Received VERY alarming text
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:OP with update. She said the misunderstanding was due to typos. She sounded completely normal, so I guess it was false alarm. But whew that was creepy.


You should post what was said in the text and if she was threatening gun violins even as a joke and it was really that violent then I would just move on it's only been 3 months that you've been with her anyway but this is another reason why I wouldn't give my address out. Where did you meet her


Violins do have bows but no arrows
Anonymous
Post 03/08/2026 23:44     Subject: Received VERY alarming text
It’s too late at night for me to be laughing in the couch in the dark. Op, seriously bro?
Anonymous
Post 03/08/2026 23:16     Subject: Received VERY alarming text
I wonder if she meant to send it to another man? An ex? Someone else she is still seeing?
Is she still married.

OP, I would move on. It sounds like she is either not available (seeing others) or mentally ill.
Anonymous
Post 03/08/2026 22:09     Subject: Received VERY alarming text
Anonymous wrote:OP with update. She said the misunderstanding was due to typos. She sounded completely normal, so I guess it was false alarm. But whew that was creepy.


You should post what was said in the text and if she was threatening gun violins even as a joke and it was really that violent then I would just move on it's only been 3 months that you've been with her anyway but this is another reason why I wouldn't give my address out. Where did you meet her
Anonymous
Post 03/08/2026 21:52     Subject: Received VERY alarming text
Huh? How is a typo a believable explanation? What was the actual text?
Anonymous
Post 03/08/2026 21:50     Subject: Received VERY alarming text
What the heck kind of typo was that?
Anonymous
Post 03/08/2026 21:48     Subject: Received VERY alarming text
OP with update. She said the misunderstanding was due to typos. She sounded completely normal, so I guess it was false alarm. But whew that was creepy.
Anonymous
Post 03/08/2026 21:34     Subject: Received VERY alarming text
Is it possible someone took her phone?

Be cautious but see if there's an explanation. If she's nuts, mute but don't block so you can be aware and collect evidence.
Anonymous
Post 03/08/2026 21:31     Subject: Re:Received VERY alarming text
Anonymous wrote:I likely would let her know that I received her text & was confused re: the meaning.

Then based on whether she had a good excuse or not for sending it, I would act accordingly.

But I would want an explanation from her just to satisfy my curiosity first.

Please keep us updated & let us know what she said.


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