Anonymous wrote:OP your coworker could quit today or get hit by a bus. Or you could. People would have to absorb load until replacement on board. That's why it's called "work."

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Anonymous wrote:So you're asking us if you should be a vindictive bitc8 and get your coworker fired before she found abother job? May you encounter the same karma when you decide to leave your job.

[/b]+1. Op,[b] You are horrible. At some point I was having a tough time at a place I worked with, and a coworker who knew I was looking left a clip of a very good opportunity - that I ended up getting. Just wow.

I don't think you know how to read or completely misunderstood what I said.

Anonymous wrote:I don't say this often, or lightly, but you're a shitty person.

She's got a crap job, she's trying to get out of it, she's asking you to be a reference and your response is to consider TELLING ON HER because if she leaves, you'll have more work??

The correct response is "Of course! Best of luck on your search! If someone calls me, is there anything in particular you'd like me to emphasize?"

If your company is so poorly run that you're preemptively stressing out about the amount of work you'll have to do if someone else leaves, then you should either be working to fix that because you're understaffed, setting more limits at work, or looking for a new job yourself. People leave jobs, everyone adjusts, a new hire comes in, everyone adjusts. You'll live. It's not that big a deal. Be grateful you've got an extra heads up, and if you DO get called for a reference, give a great one and then go to her and say "I gave you a really good reference, I hope you get the job! I'm going to miss you around here. I will say, I'm starting to get stressed about the extra work - will you do me a favor and start working on your documentation? That would really help me out."

I'm sure she'll give two weeks notice, which is prime time for documentation, and if you help her out and ask her, she'll probably pay even more attention to it.

You might want to do a little introspection as to why you're so self-centered that you're considering blowing up someone's career and/or livelihood to prevent a couple months of being busy at the office.

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Anonymous wrote:So you're asking us if you should be a vindictive bitc8 and get your coworker fired before she found abother job? May you encounter the same karma when you decide to leave your job.

You are horrible. At some point I was having a tough time at a place I worked with, and a coworker who knew I was looking left a clip of a very good opportunity - that I ended up getting. Just wow.

Anonymous wrote:So you're asking us if you should be a vindictive bitc8 and get your coworker fired before she found abother job? May you encounter the same karma when you decide to leave your job.

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Anonymous wrote:So you're asking us if you should be a vindictive bitc8 and get your coworker fired before she found abother job? May you encounter the same karma when you decide to leave your job.

Oh the "Karma" is already coming my way as I will be stuck doing her job.
Ideally, she would give enough notice to train someone or as other suggested write down and document all her duties/task, which she hasn't and I don't think she plans to do it either.

My concern is knowing about it and not saying anything...

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My co-worker hates her job and casually asked me if she can put me as reference for jobs she's applying elsewhere. We have work in the same team for about two years now and we get alone pretty well, however, if she leaves with short notice, her duties will fall into me and it will take months to train a new person.

I know she's looking out for herself and I'd rather stay out of it, however, I will be directly affected by her sudden departure.
Since I know of her plans, should I say something to our supervisor, who I am close with?
I feel awful knowing she's planning on leaving and I'm stressing I will have to take over her duties as well.

Anonymous wrote:I don't say this often, or lightly, but you're a shitty person.

She's got a crap job, she's trying to get out of it, she's asking you to be a reference and your response is to consider TELLING ON HER because if she leaves, you'll have more work??

The correct response is "Of course! Best of luck on your search! If someone calls me, is there anything in particular you'd like me to emphasize?"

If your company is so poorly run that you're preemptively stressing out about the amount of work you'll have to do if someone else leaves, then you should either be working to fix that because you're understaffed, setting more limits at work, or looking for a new job yourself. People leave jobs, everyone adjusts, a new hire comes in, everyone adjusts. You'll live. It's not that big a deal. Be grateful you've got an extra heads up, and if you DO get called for a reference, give a great one and then go to her and say "I gave you a really good reference, I hope you get the job! I'm going to miss you around here. I will say, I'm starting to get stressed about the extra work - will you do me a favor and start working on your documentation? That would really help me out."

I'm sure she'll give two weeks notice, which is prime time for documentation, and if you help her out and ask her, she'll probably pay even more attention to it.

You might want to do a little introspection as to why you're so self-centered that you're considering blowing up someone's career and/or livelihood to prevent a couple months of being busy at the office.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:So you're asking us if you should be a vindictive bitc8 and get your coworker fired before she found abother job? May you encounter the same karma when you decide to leave your job.

Oh the "Karma" is already coming my way as I will be stuck doing her job.
Ideally, she would give enough notice to train someone or as other suggested write down and document all her duties/task, which she hasn't and I don't think she plans to do it either.

My concern is knowing about it and not saying anything...

Anonymous wrote:I had to ask my current coworker/supervisor to be a reference. She was annoyed to be losing me but I promised that I would try to negotiate as late a starting date as possible so as to have ample time to wrap up. I got 3 weeks and worked that whole time and left detailed instructions about my job.
Maybe you could ask for the same?