Break up today. Block him.

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Anonymous wrote:What did your mother say?

I’d like to leave but he’s still a nice partner and treats me well, so I accept his apologies but I don’t know what to do in this situation, how long more to take it.

She said that he doesn’t deserve me and that she always knew that I was a whre.

1. He’s not a nice partner. Nice partners don’t cheat.

2. He doesn’t treat you well. He accused you of cheating when he knows damn well you didn’t. He told your mother you cheated on him when he knows damn well you didn’t.

3. Your mother is a horrible person, which is very likely the reason you put up with #1 and #2. Dump this guy, get therapy, and put up some boundaries with your mother.

This sucks but it's not complicated. You leave. This happened to me. You're lucky you're just a few months in, no marriage or kids. It's emotionally tough but a no brainer. Why would this guy ever change his ways or respect you??

Why are you still with him? Just leave.

Anonymous wrote:What did your mother say?

I’d like to leave but he’s still a nice partner and treats me well, so I accept his apologies but I don’t know what to do in this situation, how long more to take it.

She said that he doesn’t deserve me and that she always knew that I was a whre.

This is fake. It must be. No one is this dumb.

Have some self respect and dump this guy. What is wrong with you? Being alone is better than being with him.

Troll

This reads like a troll post. I seriously hope so. There is no one on this planet that doesn't know what to do in this situation. At a minimum we have all seen this exact "show" on TV.

Dump him and stay far from your mom.
Girl you know better.
This will not end well in either the BF or mom situation!

Anonymous wrote:What would I do?
Definitely break up w/the guy.

He sounds extremely immature, self-centered ➕ he lacks any form of integrity.

Remember:
People will treat you the way that you allow them to.

If you continue seeing this rat you will only be digging your own grave.

Leave.

PP here. Your response was much kinder than mine but +1

The fact that your mom believed him - perhaps it explains the unimaginable - that you stayed with this absolute cretin. Because you grew up in a dysfunctional, unloving home. Otherwise - I got nothing because his can you stay and expect anything different? This guy is he** on earth and you “tried to leave?” GET THERAPY STAT!

This is a crazy person. Get away from him.

Break up obviously, wtf.

What would I do?
Definitely break up w/the guy.

He sounds extremely immature, self-centered ➕ he lacks any form of integrity.

Remember:
People will treat you the way that you allow them to.

If you continue seeing this rat you will only be digging your own grave.

Leave.