Anonymous
03/05/2026 19:50
Subject: Let’s talk waitlists, Catholic school edition
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:FWIW, we just emailed SR last night to decline my DD's acceptance. They emailed back today to ask where she is going instead, to help them track data. She decided on boarding school so it has nothing to do w SR, as we think it's a wonderful school. They were so kind and gracious.
Her twin brother is on GZ's WL so finger's crossed! Hopefully, someone gets the spot at SR and sends good wishes our way for GZ!
Your decline does not mean they take someone from the waitlist.
This is correct and something people always look past. It takes a lot of declines before they have to go to a wait list.
Anonymous
03/05/2026 18:00
Subject: Let’s talk waitlists, Catholic school edition
Anonymous wrote:FWIW, we just emailed SR last night to decline my DD's acceptance. They emailed back today to ask where she is going instead, to help them track data. She decided on boarding school so it has nothing to do w SR, as we think it's a wonderful school. They were so kind and gracious.
Her twin brother is on GZ's WL so finger's crossed! Hopefully, someone gets the spot at SR and sends good wishes our way for GZ!
Thanks for sharing! As I noted on another thread, it is interesting to learn why people turn down one school for another. Everyone has different priorities. Also nice to hear when schools are gracious and understanding.
Anonymous
03/05/2026 17:48
Subject: Let’s talk waitlists, Catholic school edition
Anonymous wrote:FWIW, we just emailed SR last night to decline my DD's acceptance. They emailed back today to ask where she is going instead, to help them track data. She decided on boarding school so it has nothing to do w SR, as we think it's a wonderful school. They were so kind and gracious.
Her twin brother is on GZ's WL so finger's crossed! Hopefully, someone gets the spot at SR and sends good wishes our way for GZ!
Your decline does not mean they take someone from the waitlist.