Anonymous
02/28/2026 14:42
Subject: Signs a relationship is going nowhere or is not a LTR prospect
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:She’s looking for you to wine and dine her at solely your expense.
It seems many women do this to guys. In this day and age, until committed, all expenses should be split equally. Dating is a trial period for both, why should only one spend?
Women do what ? It’s highly overblown how women “use” men. In most cases it’s the men themselves who try dating and “buying” with dates much younger women who are just playing them or need for money
Anonymous
02/28/2026 14:40
Subject: Signs a relationship is going nowhere or is not a LTR prospect
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:She’s looking for you to wine and dine her at solely your expense.
It seems many women do this to guys. In this day and age, until committed, all expenses should be split equally. Dating is a trial period for both, why should only one spend?
What ? Men are the ones typically who date around and don’t want commitment. I’m not splitting anything with a dude who might be seeing other women.
When we become committed/exclusive then a fair contribution relative income and expenses is feasible (for large expenses).
Anonymous
02/28/2026 14:39
Subject: Signs a relationship is going nowhere or is not a LTR prospect
If you aren't sure after one year, don't waste someone's life.
Anonymous
02/28/2026 14:38
Subject: Signs a relationship is going nowhere or is not a LTR prospect
Anonymous wrote:She’s looking for you to wine and dine her at solely your expense.
It seems many women do this to guys. In this day and age, until committed, all expenses should be split equally. Dating is a trial period for both, why should only one spend?
Anonymous
02/28/2026 13:40
Subject: Signs a relationship is going nowhere or is not a LTR prospect
Anonymous wrote:She’s looking for you to wine and dine her at solely your expense.
Unfortunately this is 99% of available women.
Anonymous
02/26/2026 06:39
Subject: Signs a relationship is going nowhere or is not a LTR prospect
Two pieces: you can fall in love with a good person, but have limited long term viability for a variety of reasons. Like me in my 20's. An intelligent and considerate guy, but very individualistic while I am much more straight laced. Thought he could never live a somewhat conventional lifestyle. Naturally he went on to a good career and has been married to the same woman for many years!
Anonymous
02/25/2026 23:56
Subject: Signs a relationship is going nowhere or is not a LTR prospect
Anonymous wrote:Looking back what did you see that you wish you would have seen as a bad sign? Thinking about the discussion about a weekend getaway after a few months.
When we had a disagreement and he stonewalled away and never resolved it or circled back.