I notice shoes but if they are 3-4 inch I think just why, flats I think you have some issue.

Just get some normal 2” heals at DSW.

I won't say anything but yes, I will notice if your outfit is not typical for the situation, if your shoes are extremely worn or do not match your outfit, and I notice your skin/hair/jewlery.

And yes, OP did ask. If she felt confident in her look she would not have posted a question.

Anonymous wrote:From Shawshank Redemption I learned that most people do not.

Love this reference. 🩷

Anonymous wrote:I have a wedding to attend tomorrow evening. I recently lost weight and needed new dressy heels, but the ones I bought don’t fit, and I am not in the mood to shop tonight. I’m considering just wearing my old, tired dress flats. So boring. But I will be sitting the majority of the time, and you don’t see feet on the dance floor anyway, right?

Nope. No one will notice and anyone with enough taste/style who does, will have enough class not to say anything

No one needs to be in 4 inch stilettos. Treat yourself to a smaller heel (even a kitten heel).

https://www.dsw.com/product/lifestride-madelyn-pump/583661?activeColor=blackpatentsynthetic&size=9&width=Medium&cm_mmc=CSE-_-GPS-_-G_Shopping_PLA_PMAX_Pumps-_-&cadevice=c&gclsrc=aw.ds&gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=21720596324&gbraid=0AAAAADRIb9S1pciyHREmmyTHw19caib0x&gclid=EAIaIQobChMI6IeTkJXWkgMVwk5HAR1gMBWVEAQYBiABEgJYl_D_BwE

I look at people’s shoes because I hate all my shoes right now and am looking for inspiration. Yours probably wouldn’t register. And that’s fine, right? We don’t know each other and even if we did, if I were the type to be judgmental about your shoes you probably wouldn’t want to be friends with me anyway

Your shoes are fine, OP. Don’t overthink it.

Always

Yes. It's one of the best tells

I always notice people's shoes. Shoes should not be an afterthought, especially at a wedding. The shoes make the outfit.

Only if they are gorgeous or hideous. Everything in between blends together for me.

Anonymous wrote:I notice very good or very bad and old dress flat sounds pretty bad. You say you lost a lot of weight. Presumably you got a new great dress? I think you should have shoes that honor it and do your hard work justice. That's if you care but I know I feel better when I look good.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I always notice everything. Especially if I was attending a wedding, I would be watching what the other guests are wearing too.

Come on. Stop stressing OP out.

OP asked. Dp

I always notice shoes. But I like shoes.

Anonymous wrote:I have a wedding to attend tomorrow evening. I recently lost weight and needed new dressy heels, but the ones I bought don’t fit, and I am not in the mood to shop tonight. I’m considering just wearing my old, tired dress flats. So boring. But I will be sitting the majority of the time, and you don’t see feet on the dance floor anyway, right?

Your question makes me realize I that I am always looking at shoes in a city especially on the subway or when people are walking towards me. Other than that, I really don’t notice!

I notice very good or very bad and old dress flat sounds pretty bad. You say you lost a lot of weight. Presumably you got a new great dress? I think you should have shoes that honor it and do your hard work justice. That's if you care but I know I feel better when I look good.