Anonymous wrote:Unless you catch him in the act or you gets HIV because he was getting railed by some dude, you will never know.

My roommate in college was secretly bi. He is married now and I assume his wife isn't aware else she wouldn't have married him.

Mind-blowing.

You won't. But if you're questioning it I would trust yourself.

Anonymous wrote:I have a theory that the most sexual, masculine, athletic men are often bisexual but stifled by society. This is based on about a dozen guys I have been friends with throughout the years. I think bisexuality is more the norm for both sexes (look at ancient greece). It’s not a dig on your manhood or whatever if you are into sex with somebody.

Substitute "society" with religiosity, which is where most of the homophobia comes from, and you've got it.

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Anonymous wrote:I have a theory that the most sexual, masculine, athletic men are often bisexual but stifled by society. This is based on about a dozen guys I have been friends with throughout the years. I think bisexuality is more the norm for both sexes (look at ancient greece). It’s not a dig on your manhood or whatever if you are into sex with somebody.

There is a famous porn star called Ron Jeremy. In one of his interview he said show me a man who like watching porn and the male actor can't get hard and has a soft d**k. Lol. He said no he wants to see a man with a hard d**k pounding. So he claimed men are bisexual by default.

I kinda agree with this, but it's the same kind of "bisexual" people assume most women are. Men aren't attracted to the men they see in porn because they want to do them/be done by them, it's because they want to be them. Most women are the same about beautiful women. It's not really "bisexual" so much as appreciating the aesthetic and possibly being a little jealous.

-a bi

Anonymous wrote:I have a theory that the most sexual, masculine, athletic men are often bisexual but stifled by society. This is based on about a dozen guys I have been friends with throughout the years. I think bisexuality is more the norm for both sexes (look at ancient greece). It’s not a dig on your manhood or whatever if you are into sex with somebody.

There is a famous porn star called Ron Jeremy. In one of his interview he said show me a man who like watching porn and the male actor can't get hard and has a soft d**k. Lol. He said no he wants to see a man with a hard d**k pounding. So he claimed men are bisexual by default.

Anonymous wrote:I have a theory that the most sexual, masculine, athletic men are often bisexual but stifled by society. This is based on about a dozen guys I have been friends with throughout the years. I think bisexuality is more the norm for both sexes (look at ancient greece). It’s not a dig on your manhood or whatever if you are into sex with somebody.

Ill admit I'm clueless about all the gender stuff. Someone explained to me that a man for example who has sex with a transgender woman is not gay because he sees that person as a woman. If that's the case is he even bi then under this scenario? I guess then he is "straight".

This is the s**t liberals have brought us.

I think there is a secret handshake!

I have a theory that the most sexual, masculine, athletic men are often bisexual but stifled by society. This is based on about a dozen guys I have been friends with throughout the years. I think bisexuality is more the norm for both sexes (look at ancient greece). It’s not a dig on your manhood or whatever if you are into sex with somebody.

Anonymous wrote:I am GenX. I don't think my generation is cool with dating bi men. I think Millennials and GenX are more open to dating bi men.

Agree. We grew up with AIDS. They have meds for it now.

Anonymous wrote:One of my good friends I guess is bisexual. How I knew he was bi is that he had a girlfriend for a while they broke up, and then he brought his boyfriend over. I don't think it's a big deal at all.

I have a friend from college like this. The girls were just covers though. He’s really gay and happily with a man now.

Anonymous wrote:Unless you catch him in the act or you gets HIV because he was getting railed by some dude, you will never know.

My roommate in college was secretly bi. He is married now and I assume his wife isn't aware else she wouldn't have married him.

If it’s a secret how do you know?

One of my good friends I guess is bisexual. How I knew he was bi is that he had a girlfriend for a while they broke up, and then he brought his boyfriend over. I don't think it's a big deal at all.

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Anonymous wrote:Ask? That’s about all you can do.

If a woman ask if i were bi I would be so upset and I don't think the relationship will survive. I'll start doubting myself, maybe she asked because I did f**k her properly? Or maybe I am too soft? Idk just don't a straight man's sexual orientation because its triggering lol

I wouldn't want a relationship with anyone who can't handle having their sexual orientation questioned. It's not a BFD.

If I never show you signs that I like men, then why would you question my orientation?

Because I can't read your mind. Your sexual performance--deficient or otherwise--is on you, not your sexual orientation.

I am GenX. I don't think my generation is cool with dating bi men. I think Millennials and GenX are more open to dating bi men.

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Anonymous wrote:Ask? That’s about all you can do.

If a woman ask if i were bi I would be so upset and I don't think the relationship will survive. I'll start doubting myself, maybe she asked because I did f**k her properly? Or maybe I am too soft? Idk just don't a straight man's sexual orientation because its triggering lol

I wouldn't want a relationship with anyone who can't handle having their sexual orientation questioned. It's not a BFD.

If I never show you signs that I like men, then why would you question my orientation?