Anonymous wrote:I would probably spend a bunch on my kid's birthday because he wants to invite everyone and I don't want to crush the idea that "everyone is welcome" from his instincts. The birthday party I really want to do is at one of those ropes course places that would cost me about 1500 if my kid invited everyone he wanted to. I'm not doing it because that is ridiculous, but I kinda want to.
Does getting nails done, eybrows and lashes dyed and underarms and bikini waxes count as frivolous spending?
Do it! You and he will remember the party forever! My kids are grown and I'd go back in a heartbeat to relieve any of my kids' birthday party days.