Anonymous
Post 02/10/2026 19:29     Subject: Is a 30 year age difference ever anything but gold digger?
My sis in law is married to a much older man but she's by far the breadwinner.
Anonymous
Post 02/10/2026 19:25     Subject: Is a 30 year age difference ever anything but gold digger?
My grandfather was 30 yrs older and broke then he got dementia
Anonymous
Post 02/10/2026 17:17     Subject: Is a 30 year age difference ever anything but gold digger?
anyone could be a gold digger, it doesn't have to be of certain age. There are a lot of women in their 20s and 30s that date men of their age and are gold diggers.
Anonymous
Post 02/10/2026 16:31     Subject: Is a 30 year age difference ever anything but gold digger?
A 30-year age gap is a financial arrangement. Anyone who claims otherwise is lying or delusional.
Anonymous
Post 02/10/2026 16:18     Subject: Is a 30 year age difference ever anything but gold digger?
Anonymous wrote:Some just like the calm companionship of accomplished older men.


But what about when he wants to hook up? Just pretend it's over fast?
Anonymous
Post 02/10/2026 15:32     Subject: Is a 30 year age difference ever anything but gold digger?
Some just like the calm companionship of accomplished older men.
Anonymous
Post 02/09/2026 21:03     Subject: Is a 30 year age difference ever anything but gold digger?
Anonymous wrote:When both parties are over 40.

What about 25 years? 20years?


Mommy or daddy issues?
Anonymous
Post 02/09/2026 19:02     Subject: Is a 30 year age difference ever anything but gold digger?
Anonymous wrote:Nooooooooo

Any significant (generational) age difference is a man chasing youth and a woman wanting to be taken care of.


Gen x and greatest generation is nasty.
Anonymous
Post 02/09/2026 19:00     Subject: Re:Is a 30 year age difference ever anything but gold digger?
Anonymous wrote:I actually dated a 57 year old when I was 24, I loved old guys. He was a good man and made me feel so safe in a scary world.


I am 50 57 (I assume) is way different from 84.
Anonymous
Post 02/09/2026 17:01     Subject: Is a 30 year age difference ever anything but gold digger?
There is usually a reason that doesn't totally involve love with that much of an age difference: money, stability, lack of family. Not necessarily a "gold digger" but probably needing something the significantly older party can provide.
Anonymous
Post 02/09/2026 16:45     Subject: Re:Is a 30 year age difference ever anything but gold digger?
Anonymous wrote:I have a friend who married 30 years younger man. She acknowledged being not particular sexual: the guy's looks never mattered to her. She always avoided sex. She's professional and successful on her own but wanted to enter even higher social circles when she married a much wealthier and older husband. She chose the best available for money and social status and he also helped her with career at some point. They are still together as she was fine not having sex in her 40-50s


*30 years older man
Anonymous
Post 02/09/2026 16:45     Subject: Re:Is a 30 year age difference ever anything but gold digger?
I have a friend who married 30 years younger man. She acknowledged being not particular sexual: the guy's looks never mattered to her. She always avoided sex. She's professional and successful on her own but wanted to enter even higher social circles when she married a much wealthier and older husband. She chose the best available for money and social status and he also helped her with career at some point. They are still together as she was fine not having sex in her 40-50s
Anonymous
Post 02/09/2026 16:43     Subject: Re:Is a 30 year age difference ever anything but gold digger?
Anonymous wrote:I actually dated a 57 year old when I was 24, I loved old guys. He was a good man and made me feel so safe in a scary world.


Really? In a "scary" world? You should try some therapy to help figure that out
Anonymous
Post 02/09/2026 16:41     Subject: Is a 30 year age difference ever anything but gold digger?
Nooooooooo

Any significant (generational) age difference is a man chasing youth and a woman wanting to be taken care of.