Anonymous wrote:Don’t buy it. There’ll be another opportunity to get something as a gift. Don’t jinx it!!!
Anonymous wrote:Golly, 5 bucks? That’s a LOT of money.
Anonymous wrote:if there's only 1 in stock but it's a joke-y gift, is it something you could source on like Etsy ?
can you ask a friend to buy it and hold onto it if you want to dispel superstition
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:My husband may be making a major and much desired career change. He has an interview in a couple of weeks and his chances are genuinely good, but obviously nothing is guaranteed.
Months ago I came across a very niche gift that would be perfect if he gets it. The problem? There’s currently only one left in stock, so if I want it, I need to buy it now. It’s $5, so cost isn’t an issue, and if he doesn’t get the job I’ll donate it.
Here’s the (possibly irrational) hang-up: I’m superstitious and worried this is “putting the cart before the horse” or somehow inviting bad karma.
DCUM reality check requested—is this silly superstition, or would you wait until there’s an offer in hand?
How soon after he hears about that offer can you get the gift to you/delivered?
Anonymous wrote:My husband may be making a major and much desired career change. He has an interview in a couple of weeks and his chances are genuinely good, but obviously nothing is guaranteed.
Months ago I came across a very niche gift that would be perfect if he gets it. The problem? There’s currently only one left in stock, so if I want it, I need to buy it now. It’s $5, so cost isn’t an issue, and if he doesn’t get the job I’ll donate it.
Here’s the (possibly irrational) hang-up: I’m superstitious and worried this is “putting the cart before the horse” or somehow inviting bad karma.
DCUM reality check requested—is this silly superstition, or would you wait until there’s an offer in hand?
Anonymous wrote:Superstition isn't real. So, I'd buy it.
I buy a special treat for my kid whenever they have something big in play for the decision day. It can be a congrats or a "I know you tried" gift. Would that work?