Anonymous wrote:This isn’t allowed under safesport rules for equestrian, so I assume all other Olympic sports? If you’re a coach, you can’t sleep with your students.

Like that stops anyone.

I hope OP wasn't just a troll and gives us an update on what she decided to do about the situation.

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Anonymous wrote:If they consent to the cheating, they consent to getting caught. Let the wife know, OP. You'd want to know.

Anonymously only. Tell the wife when and where to show up to see for herself. If she doesn't act on the tip, drop it and move on with your life.

No. Mind your business.

Some people's moral code compels them to tell the wife, so if they must do it, it has to be as hands off as possible. Personally I wouldn't get involved either.

This isn’t allowed under safesport rules for equestrian, so I assume all other Olympic sports? If you’re a coach, you can’t sleep with your students.