Anonymous
Post 01/16/2026 12:12     Subject: Family member with green card

Aren't there mail-order brides? Not sure how one ends up socializing, much less marrying a person who doesn't speak the same language. I guess they love each other long time!
Anonymous
Post 01/16/2026 11:40     Subject: Family member with green card

Marrying an abuser to get a USA greencard?
Isn’t that illegal?
Anonymous
Post 01/16/2026 11:39     Subject: Family member with green card

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:How does your supposed American father communicate with his supposed illiterate non American wife?


With Google Translate. I am serious. It’s insane.


I hope for all our sakes she is not allowed back into the country.
Big time net liability. Am surprised her spousal green card was even awarded. Reeks of fraud and dependency.

Wow, you’re a bit crazy. A lot of of these women from poor countries are willing to marry men that are a bit controlling / abusive and somewhat disgusting to American women. The men want to be waited on, dominate, and have sex. These women would rather have this lifestyle than live in some crappy nation. It’s nothing new.


That’s fraud
Anonymous
Post 01/16/2026 10:40     Subject: Re:Family member with green card

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:yes they will have an issue.


OP here - yea that is what I am thinking too. Hysterically this "family member" is my dads wife (wife number 4) and he is MAGA. So hypocritical like always. I don't know if I should warn him or not. I am sure he won't believe me.


Don't say anything.
She will be allowed in but it is at the discretion of the immigration officers.
Anonymous
Post 01/15/2026 12:03     Subject: Family member with green card

With Green Card she should have no problems, but in the end, the immigration officer at the port of entry decides. She's already past the immigration visa restrictions, so this doesn't affect her at all. If she's only lived here for 6 years, she got her Green Card pretty fast.
Anonymous
Post 01/15/2026 11:52     Subject: Family member with green card

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:How does your supposed American father communicate with his supposed illiterate non American wife?


With Google Translate. I am serious. It’s insane.


I hope for all our sakes she is not allowed back into the country.
Big time net liability. Am surprised her spousal green card was even awarded. Reeks of fraud and dependency.

Wow, you’re a bit crazy. A lot of of these women from poor countries are willing to marry men that are a bit controlling / abusive and somewhat disgusting to American women. The men want to be waited on, dominate, and have sex. These women would rather have this lifestyle than live in some crappy nation. It’s nothing new.
Anonymous
Post 01/15/2026 11:47     Subject: Family member with green card

Anonymous wrote:How long does it take for a spouse to get citizenship?


You are eligible after 5 years of being a permanent resident. Google could have easily answered this for you.
Anonymous
Post 01/15/2026 11:46     Subject: Family member with green card

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:How does your supposed American father communicate with his supposed illiterate non American wife?


With Google Translate. I am serious. It’s insane.


I hope for all our sakes she is not allowed back into the country.
Big time net liability. Am surprised her spousal green card was even awarded. Reeks of fraud and dependency.


You have no idea how green cards work, do you?
Anonymous
Post 01/15/2026 11:45     Subject: Family member with green card

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:How does your supposed American father communicate with his supposed illiterate non American wife?


With Google Translate. I am serious. It’s insane.


I hope for all our sakes she is not allowed back into the country.
Big time net liability. Am surprised her spousal green card was even awarded. Reeks of fraud and dependency.


Marrying a person who doesn't speak your language at all is NOT illegal, so the green card is legal. It is gross but not illegal. I predict she will be allowed in the country, because of the greencard - that's what greencard is for - allowed to live in the US permanently as long as you spend more then 6 months a year in the US, it has no travel restriction.
Anonymous
Post 01/15/2026 11:25     Subject: Re:Family member with green card

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:yes they will have an issue.


OP here - yea that is what I am thinking too. Hysterically this "family member" is my dads wife (wife number 4) and he is MAGA. So hypocritical like always. I don't know if I should warn him or not. I am sure he won't believe me.


Aren’t you concerned your father will deplete all his money on her and her extended family and then both will need to rely on you in their elder years?

Or is he or you a multi millionaire too?


OP - dad is a millionaire. Sibling and I both have HHI close to 7 figures. I was already concerned about him depleting all his money on her and her family (this would be nothing new).


Why is everyone so trashy then?


Why are we trashy? Op here
Anonymous
Post 01/15/2026 11:15     Subject: Family member with green card

How long does it take for a spouse to get citizenship?
Anonymous
Post 01/15/2026 11:14     Subject: Re:Family member with green card

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:yes they will have an issue.


OP here - yea that is what I am thinking too. Hysterically this "family member" is my dads wife (wife number 4) and he is MAGA. So hypocritical like always. I don't know if I should warn him or not. I am sure he won't believe me.


Aren’t you concerned your father will deplete all his money on her and her extended family and then both will need to rely on you in their elder years?

Or is he or you a multi millionaire too?


OP - dad is a millionaire. Sibling and I both have HHI close to 7 figures. I was already concerned about him depleting all his money on her and her family (this would be nothing new).


Why is everyone so trashy then?
Anonymous
Post 01/15/2026 11:11     Subject: Family member with green card

spouse of citizen will be able to get in.
Anonymous
Post 01/15/2026 11:05     Subject: Re:Family member with green card

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:yes they will have an issue.


OP here - yea that is what I am thinking too. Hysterically this "family member" is my dads wife (wife number 4) and he is MAGA. So hypocritical like always. I don't know if I should warn him or not. I am sure he won't believe me.


Aren’t you concerned your father will deplete all his money on her and her extended family and then both will need to rely on you in their elder years?

Or is he or you a multi millionaire too?


OP - dad is a millionaire. Sibling and I both have HHI close to 7 figures. I was already concerned about him depleting all his money on her and her family (this would be nothing new).
Anonymous
Post 01/15/2026 11:02     Subject: Family member with green card

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:How does your supposed American father communicate with his supposed illiterate non American wife?


With Google Translate. I am serious. It’s insane.


I hope for all our sakes she is not allowed back into the country.
Big time net liability. Am surprised her spousal green card was even awarded. Reeks of fraud and dependency.