Anonymous
Post 01/12/2026 16:30     Subject: Shared immigration status
Anonymous wrote:
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Anonymous wrote:So that means you are a legal immigrant with a green card. Unless they also want green card holders kicked out?


I honestly don't know. I fear they think we married for citizenship even though I never went through our marriage. Or maybe they lump me into the people they claim to hate because as a child I was here undocumented and they can't accept that. I'm truly not sure without a conversation with them. I thought we could at least have one not that they would give us the silent treatment


I'm an immigrant myself, a citizen after 20 years, and know immigration laws pretty well. Nobody gets deported for running a red light 20 years ago. This is just nonsense. I support ICE. Fully. I'm sick and tired of illegals sucking up resources just because they can. Your ILs are not picking up your message, because it's confrontational. They don't know immigration laws, just like you don't know immigration laws of say, Bulgaria. Not sure what you want from them? A promise you'll not get deported? They cannot give you that. If you used any resources before becoming a citizen, it may become a problem. They don't know what to say, because no matter what they say, it seems to be a problem for you. It's not their fault you were here undocumented as a child. In most countries, in fact in all I know, and I've lived and had long-term residence in 10 different ones, you'd get kicked out as soon as you're found out. I'm sure you had a better life here than in your home country, or you'd not have arrived here undocumented (and I hate this word, because you sure have documents somewhere). And if you hate it here or think you're entitled to stay no matter what and cannot, you know where your home country is.


That's actually not true. People are getting deported from DUIs in college that occurred in the 1990's. So, you're wrong. But you probably will never admit it, so this is wasted effort.


Do you want to say you're familiar with someone's immigration case? Because I can assure you that you are not. Don't believe what you read in the press. What are you trying to prove here? Nobody cares whether I'm wrong or right, it doesn't matter and there's nothing for me to admit. You sound ridiculous. Only your own immigration case matters.


I'm an immigrant just like you and I very much care. Because what you're spewing is propaganda as told you by Trump and Co. The PP stated what has been reported by credible sources (many of them). You may choose to believe Trump over the independent press but I sure don't. People are getting deported from their court hearings, people are getting deported after living here and contributing for 20-30 years into the system they will NEVER benefit from. It's quite disgusting that you are have chosen to believe what Trump sold you over what it's front of your eyes as an immigrant, nonetheless.

And her inlaws should absolutely know what is going on in their country. They should have basic familiarity with immigration and other laws. Claiming ignorance while choosing bigotry is no excuse.
Anonymous
Post 01/12/2026 16:28     Subject: Shared immigration status
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:So that means you are a legal immigrant with a green card. Unless they also want green card holders kicked out?


I honestly don't know. I fear they think we married for citizenship even though I never went through our marriage. Or maybe they lump me into the people they claim to hate because as a child I was here undocumented and they can't accept that. I'm truly not sure without a conversation with them. I thought we could at least have one not that they would give us the silent treatment


I'm an immigrant myself, a citizen after 20 years, and know immigration laws pretty well. Nobody gets deported for running a red light 20 years ago. This is just nonsense. I support ICE. Fully. I'm sick and tired of illegals sucking up resources just because they can. Your ILs are not picking up your message, because it's confrontational. They don't know immigration laws, just like you don't know immigration laws of say, Bulgaria. Not sure what you want from them? A promise you'll not get deported? They cannot give you that. If you used any resources before becoming a citizen, it may become a problem. They don't know what to say, because no matter what they say, it seems to be a problem for you. It's not their fault you were here undocumented as a child. In most countries, in fact in all I know, and I've lived and had long-term residence in 10 different ones, you'd get kicked out as soon as you're found out. I'm sure you had a better life here than in your home country, or you'd not have arrived here undocumented (and I hate this word, because you sure have documents somewhere). And if you hate it here or think you're entitled to stay no matter what and cannot, you know where your home country is.



for your sake, i hope you are a troll. But sadly, you likely aren't and won't understand how ridiculous you are until they come for you


You're ridiculous. I'm not afraid of anyone coming for me. I also have all my documents and am a dual citizen, so no, I have no problem whatsoever with enforcing immigration laws.


That’s cute you think you’re immune from mistreatment.


There is nothing cute about it. You don't know the immigration laws, simple as that. You only know about some abstract mistreatment, because someone somewhere said something that you didn't like or misunderstood. You have no idea of what my background is. As a coddled American you sound immature and instead of inciting drama, have decency to keep your nonsense to yourself.
Anonymous
Post 01/12/2026 16:24     Subject: Shared immigration status
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:OP can I ask why you're not a citizen if you've been married for 12 years? I'm just curious because it seems like it puts you into a situation with this administration


Fair question. Honestly I don't know. I have a U-visa that adjusted to a green card a few years ago. I can now file an adjustment through that. After 6 years or so you're eligible to adjust to a citizen. I know I should have done it years ago


Just make sure you're responding to all questions honestly and fill in all the pertinent fields on the application. I know that many immigrants don't and try to omit some things, in order to "not stand out". That's what may come back to bite you. Nobody gets deported from running a red light from 30 years ago (and you got a ticket) BUT if you did, and omitted that in your application, and it somehow comes out, then you have lied on your application. Good luck and don't get caught up in some deranged drama.
Anonymous
Post 01/12/2026 16:23     Subject: Shared immigration status
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:So that means you are a legal immigrant with a green card. Unless they also want green card holders kicked out?


I honestly don't know. I fear they think we married for citizenship even though I never went through our marriage. Or maybe they lump me into the people they claim to hate because as a child I was here undocumented and they can't accept that. I'm truly not sure without a conversation with them. I thought we could at least have one not that they would give us the silent treatment


I'm an immigrant myself, a citizen after 20 years, and know immigration laws pretty well. Nobody gets deported for running a red light 20 years ago. This is just nonsense. I support ICE. Fully. I'm sick and tired of illegals sucking up resources just because they can. Your ILs are not picking up your message, because it's confrontational. They don't know immigration laws, just like you don't know immigration laws of say, Bulgaria. Not sure what you want from them? A promise you'll not get deported? They cannot give you that. If you used any resources before becoming a citizen, it may become a problem. They don't know what to say, because no matter what they say, it seems to be a problem for you. It's not their fault you were here undocumented as a child. In most countries, in fact in all I know, and I've lived and had long-term residence in 10 different ones, you'd get kicked out as soon as you're found out. I'm sure you had a better life here than in your home country, or you'd not have arrived here undocumented (and I hate this word, because you sure have documents somewhere). And if you hate it here or think you're entitled to stay no matter what and cannot, you know where your home country is.



for your sake, i hope you are a troll. But sadly, you likely aren't and won't understand how ridiculous you are until they come for you


You're ridiculous. I'm not afraid of anyone coming for me. I also have all my documents and am a dual citizen, so no, I have no problem whatsoever with enforcing immigration laws.


That’s cute you think you’re immune from mistreatment.
Anonymous
Post 01/12/2026 16:19     Subject: Shared immigration status
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:So that means you are a legal immigrant with a green card. Unless they also want green card holders kicked out?


I honestly don't know. I fear they think we married for citizenship even though I never went through our marriage. Or maybe they lump me into the people they claim to hate because as a child I was here undocumented and they can't accept that. I'm truly not sure without a conversation with them. I thought we could at least have one not that they would give us the silent treatment


I'm an immigrant myself, a citizen after 20 years, and know immigration laws pretty well. Nobody gets deported for running a red light 20 years ago. This is just nonsense. I support ICE. Fully. I'm sick and tired of illegals sucking up resources just because they can. Your ILs are not picking up your message, because it's confrontational. They don't know immigration laws, just like you don't know immigration laws of say, Bulgaria. Not sure what you want from them? A promise you'll not get deported? They cannot give you that. If you used any resources before becoming a citizen, it may become a problem. They don't know what to say, because no matter what they say, it seems to be a problem for you. It's not their fault you were here undocumented as a child. In most countries, in fact in all I know, and I've lived and had long-term residence in 10 different ones, you'd get kicked out as soon as you're found out. I'm sure you had a better life here than in your home country, or you'd not have arrived here undocumented (and I hate this word, because you sure have documents somewhere). And if you hate it here or think you're entitled to stay no matter what and cannot, you know where your home country is.



for your sake, i hope you are a troll. But sadly, you likely aren't and won't understand how ridiculous you are until they come for you


You're ridiculous. I'm not afraid of anyone coming for me. I also have all my documents and am a dual citizen, so no, I have no problem whatsoever with enforcing immigration laws.
Anonymous
Post 01/12/2026 15:34     Subject: Shared immigration status
So you didn't do it when, you say, "I should have done it years ago."
Get on it
Anonymous
Post 01/12/2026 15:34     Subject: Shared immigration status
OP,I hope your MAGA in laws don't call hielo on you. I am so sorry
Anonymous
Post 01/12/2026 15:33     Subject: Shared immigration status
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:So that means you are a legal immigrant with a green card. Unless they also want green card holders kicked out?


I honestly don't know. I fear they think we married for citizenship even though I never went through our marriage. Or maybe they lump me into the people they claim to hate because as a child I was here undocumented and they can't accept that. I'm truly not sure without a conversation with them. I thought we could at least have one not that they would give us the silent treatment


I'm an immigrant myself, a citizen after 20 years, and know immigration laws pretty well. Nobody gets deported for running a red light 20 years ago. This is just nonsense. I support ICE. Fully. I'm sick and tired of illegals sucking up resources just because they can. Your ILs are not picking up your message, because it's confrontational. They don't know immigration laws, just like you don't know immigration laws of say, Bulgaria. Not sure what you want from them? A promise you'll not get deported? They cannot give you that. If you used any resources before becoming a citizen, it may become a problem. They don't know what to say, because no matter what they say, it seems to be a problem for you. It's not their fault you were here undocumented as a child. In most countries, in fact in all I know, and I've lived and had long-term residence in 10 different ones, you'd get kicked out as soon as you're found out. I'm sure you had a better life here than in your home country, or you'd not have arrived here undocumented (and I hate this word, because you sure have documents somewhere). And if you hate it here or think you're entitled to stay no matter what and cannot, you know where your home country is.



for your sake, i hope you are a troll. But sadly, you likely aren't and won't understand how ridiculous you are until they come for you
Anonymous
Post 01/12/2026 15:19     Subject: Shared immigration status
Anonymous wrote:
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Anonymous wrote:13:27, you are incredibly naive.

OP, I really like what 12:13 said. I’d add that you should tell them your visa, green card, etc. did NOT come through marriage, in case that thought entered their minds. (Not that it should matter, but to them it might matter.)

What does your spouse say?


Sorry to tell you, but I've been dealing with immigration law for 20+ years. What about you?


The only "experience" that matters is what's been happening in the last 6 months. Your "experience" over 20 years means nothing.


You sound deranged. And you lie.


So you literally think immigration law is business as usual right now???!!! Are you paying attention AT ALL?
Anonymous
Post 01/12/2026 15:19     Subject: Shared immigration status
Anonymous wrote:OP can I ask why you're not a citizen if you've been married for 12 years? I'm just curious because it seems like it puts you into a situation with this administration


Fair question. Honestly I don't know. I have a U-visa that adjusted to a green card a few years ago. I can now file an adjustment through that. After 6 years or so you're eligible to adjust to a citizen. I know I should have done it years ago
Anonymous
Post 01/12/2026 15:09     Subject: Shared immigration status
OP can I ask why you're not a citizen if you've been married for 12 years? I'm just curious because it seems like it puts you into a situation with this administration
Anonymous
Post 01/12/2026 15:08     Subject: Shared immigration status
Were you a legal immigrant as a baby?

I'm not MAGA but my MAGA relatives are the most supportive of legal immigration.
Anonymous
Post 01/12/2026 15:02     Subject: Shared immigration status
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:13:27, you are incredibly naive.

OP, I really like what 12:13 said. I’d add that you should tell them your visa, green card, etc. did NOT come through marriage, in case that thought entered their minds. (Not that it should matter, but to them it might matter.)

What does your spouse say?


Sorry to tell you, but I've been dealing with immigration law for 20+ years. What about you?


The only "experience" that matters is what's been happening in the last 6 months. Your "experience" over 20 years means nothing.


You sound deranged. And you lie.
Anonymous
Post 01/12/2026 15:01     Subject: Shared immigration status
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:13:27, you are incredibly naive.

OP, I really like what 12:13 said. I’d add that you should tell them your visa, green card, etc. did NOT come through marriage, in case that thought entered their minds. (Not that it should matter, but to them it might matter.)

What does your spouse say?


Sorry to tell you, but I've been dealing with immigration law for 20+ years. What about you?


The only "experience" that matters is what's been happening in the last 6 months. Your "experience" over 20 years means nothing.
Anonymous
Post 01/12/2026 14:16     Subject: Shared immigration status
I don’t see not answering your email as not including you in the family. If they are MAGA, you already know they are just as happy for you to be deported. Not sure what response you expected or were looking for, though.