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Anonymous wrote:A man to have free sex with you? Of course.

A man who will also follow rules about protection and not seeing other people and respecting your boundaries? Seems unlikely.

I'm a woman who has had multiple FWB and this seems kind of ridiculous.

Protection: I always insist on condoms, if they won't, then we don't have sex. But most men will, I've only known one guy who absolutely refused, so we parted ways.

Not seeing other people: you have no right to insist a FWB not see other people. Even when I have one, I am dating and seeing other people. Am I sleeping with them? Usually not; usually once I start dating someone, I end the FWB relationship. But yea, once in awhile when I have a FWB, I meet a hot guy I want to sleep with and I do. I'd be absolutely furious if a FWB tried to control what I did and tell me what I can/can't do. If he doesn't like it, he can leave.

Respecting boundaries: exactly what boundaries? The boundaries that they have to be committed to you while you're free to do whatever you want? Stupid. If you're going to ban each other from seeing others, that's not FWB, that's a relationship.

No clue why there's been so many weird posts here like "my FWB is cheating!" The very definition of a FWB is that you hookup and nothing else. It's not cheating, it's not disrespecting boundaries.

You are probably my favorite DCUM poster. A lot of people find you upsetting or threatening. I think you make sense. (I'm pretty sure you are the late forties woman who says she's still attractive, though not as attractive as when she was younger, and had two boyfriends for a while, one good in bed, the other good at conversation.)

These answer is puzzling as I’m not sure how the lady makes it work and safe to her.
Condoms don’t protect from everything. It’s would take regular STD testing and being sexually exclusive to be 100% protected for me. And what about oral sex?

If you want exclusivity, then you’re looking for a relationship, not a FWB.

I would totally be interested in a hot FWB with exclusivity condition. But men would lie and still sleep around which is why I never had a FwB

And women don’t lie?

I never cheated on any of my partners, casual or serious. Lying and cheating is not mono/poly thing.

I did try dating polyamorous people and poly for myself but it just doesn’t work for me. I constantly think his D was in some other lady hollow places last night and get disgusted. I can’t even relax and can’t sleep with men who sleep with others.

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Anonymous wrote:A man to have free sex with you? Of course.

A man who will also follow rules about protection and not seeing other people and respecting your boundaries? Seems unlikely.

I'm a woman who has had multiple FWB and this seems kind of ridiculous.

Protection: I always insist on condoms, if they won't, then we don't have sex. But most men will, I've only known one guy who absolutely refused, so we parted ways.

Not seeing other people: you have no right to insist a FWB not see other people. Even when I have one, I am dating and seeing other people. Am I sleeping with them? Usually not; usually once I start dating someone, I end the FWB relationship. But yea, once in awhile when I have a FWB, I meet a hot guy I want to sleep with and I do. I'd be absolutely furious if a FWB tried to control what I did and tell me what I can/can't do. If he doesn't like it, he can leave.

Respecting boundaries: exactly what boundaries? The boundaries that they have to be committed to you while you're free to do whatever you want? Stupid. If you're going to ban each other from seeing others, that's not FWB, that's a relationship.

No clue why there's been so many weird posts here like "my FWB is cheating!" The very definition of a FWB is that you hookup and nothing else. It's not cheating, it's not disrespecting boundaries.

You are probably my favorite DCUM poster. A lot of people find you upsetting or threatening. I think you make sense. (I'm pretty sure you are the late forties woman who says she's still attractive, though not as attractive as when she was younger, and had two boyfriends for a while, one good in bed, the other good at conversation.)

These answer is puzzling as I’m not sure how the lady makes it work and safe to her.
Condoms don’t protect from everything. It’s would take regular STD testing and being sexually exclusive to be 100% protected for me. And what about oral sex?

If you want exclusivity, then you’re looking for a relationship, not a FWB.

I would totally be interested in a hot FWB with exclusivity condition. But men would lie and still sleep around which is why I never had a FwB

And women don’t lie?

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Anonymous wrote:I'm a man, but judging from what I've heard from women, it would be easy to find a man to agree to be their FWB. The hard part would be:
1. Finding such a man that they are attracted to.
2. Finding such a man who will agree to whatever parameters they set (e.g., not sleeping with other people).
3. Finding such a man who provides satisfying sex.

How is demanding exclusivity even compatible with a FWB arrangement?

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Anonymous wrote:A man to have free sex with you? Of course.

A man who will also follow rules about protection and not seeing other people and respecting your boundaries? Seems unlikely.

I'm a woman who has had multiple FWB and this seems kind of ridiculous.

Protection: I always insist on condoms, if they won't, then we don't have sex. But most men will, I've only known one guy who absolutely refused, so we parted ways.

Not seeing other people: you have no right to insist a FWB not see other people. Even when I have one, I am dating and seeing other people. Am I sleeping with them? Usually not; usually once I start dating someone, I end the FWB relationship. But yea, once in awhile when I have a FWB, I meet a hot guy I want to sleep with and I do. I'd be absolutely furious if a FWB tried to control what I did and tell me what I can/can't do. If he doesn't like it, he can leave.

Respecting boundaries: exactly what boundaries? The boundaries that they have to be committed to you while you're free to do whatever you want? Stupid. If you're going to ban each other from seeing others, that's not FWB, that's a relationship.

No clue why there's been so many weird posts here like "my FWB is cheating!" The very definition of a FWB is that you hookup and nothing else. It's not cheating, it's not disrespecting boundaries.

You are probably my favorite DCUM poster. A lot of people find you upsetting or threatening. I think you make sense. (I'm pretty sure you are the late forties woman who says she's still attractive, though not as attractive as when she was younger, and had two boyfriends for a while, one good in bed, the other good at conversation.)

These answer is puzzling as I’m not sure how the lady makes it work and safe to her.
Condoms don’t protect from everything. It’s would take regular STD testing and being sexually exclusive to be 100% protected for me. And what about oral sex?

If you want exclusivity, then you’re looking for a relationship, not a FWB.

I would totally be interested in a hot FWB with exclusivity condition. But men would lie and still sleep around which is why I never had a FwB

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Anonymous wrote:A man to have free sex with you? Of course.

A man who will also follow rules about protection and not seeing other people and respecting your boundaries? Seems unlikely.

I'm a woman who has had multiple FWB and this seems kind of ridiculous.

Protection: I always insist on condoms, if they won't, then we don't have sex. But most men will, I've only known one guy who absolutely refused, so we parted ways.

Not seeing other people: you have no right to insist a FWB not see other people. Even when I have one, I am dating and seeing other people. Am I sleeping with them? Usually not; usually once I start dating someone, I end the FWB relationship. But yea, once in awhile when I have a FWB, I meet a hot guy I want to sleep with and I do. I'd be absolutely furious if a FWB tried to control what I did and tell me what I can/can't do. If he doesn't like it, he can leave.

Respecting boundaries: exactly what boundaries? The boundaries that they have to be committed to you while you're free to do whatever you want? Stupid. If you're going to ban each other from seeing others, that's not FWB, that's a relationship.

No clue why there's been so many weird posts here like "my FWB is cheating!" The very definition of a FWB is that you hookup and nothing else. It's not cheating, it's not disrespecting boundaries.

You are probably my favorite DCUM poster. A lot of people find you upsetting or threatening. I think you make sense. (I'm pretty sure you are the late forties woman who says she's still attractive, though not as attractive as when she was younger, and had two boyfriends for a while, one good in bed, the other good at conversation.)

These answer is puzzling as I’m not sure how the lady makes it work and safe to her.
Condoms don’t protect from everything. It’s would take regular STD testing and being sexually exclusive to be 100% protected for me. And what about oral sex?

If you want exclusivity, then you’re looking for a relationship, not a FWB.

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Anonymous wrote:A man to have free sex with you? Of course.

A man who will also follow rules about protection and not seeing other people and respecting your boundaries? Seems unlikely.

I'm a woman who has had multiple FWB and this seems kind of ridiculous.

Protection: I always insist on condoms, if they won't, then we don't have sex. But most men will, I've only known one guy who absolutely refused, so we parted ways.

Not seeing other people: you have no right to insist a FWB not see other people. Even when I have one, I am dating and seeing other people. Am I sleeping with them? Usually not; usually once I start dating someone, I end the FWB relationship. But yea, once in awhile when I have a FWB, I meet a hot guy I want to sleep with and I do. I'd be absolutely furious if a FWB tried to control what I did and tell me what I can/can't do. If he doesn't like it, he can leave.

Respecting boundaries: exactly what boundaries? The boundaries that they have to be committed to you while you're free to do whatever you want? Stupid. If you're going to ban each other from seeing others, that's not FWB, that's a relationship.

No clue why there's been so many weird posts here like "my FWB is cheating!" The very definition of a FWB is that you hookup and nothing else. It's not cheating, it's not disrespecting boundaries.

You are probably my favorite DCUM poster. A lot of people find you upsetting or threatening. I think you make sense. (I'm pretty sure you are the late forties woman who says she's still attractive, though not as attractive as when she was younger, and had two boyfriends for a while, one good in bed, the other good at conversation.)

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Anonymous wrote:A man to have free sex with you? Of course.

A man who will also follow rules about protection and not seeing other people and respecting your boundaries? Seems unlikely.

I'm a woman who has had multiple FWB and this seems kind of ridiculous.

Protection: I always insist on condoms, if they won't, then we don't have sex. But most men will, I've only known one guy who absolutely refused, so we parted ways.

Not seeing other people: you have no right to insist a FWB not see other people. Even when I have one, I am dating and seeing other people. Am I sleeping with them? Usually not; usually once I start dating someone, I end the FWB relationship. But yea, once in awhile when I have a FWB, I meet a hot guy I want to sleep with and I do. I'd be absolutely furious if a FWB tried to control what I did and tell me what I can/can't do. If he doesn't like it, he can leave.

Respecting boundaries: exactly what boundaries? The boundaries that they have to be committed to you while you're free to do whatever you want? Stupid. If you're going to ban each other from seeing others, that's not FWB, that's a relationship.

No clue why there's been so many weird posts here like "my FWB is cheating!" The very definition of a FWB is that you hookup and nothing else. It's not cheating, it's not disrespecting boundaries.

You are probably my favorite DCUM poster. A lot of people find you upsetting or threatening. I think you make sense. (I'm pretty sure you are the late forties woman who says she's still attractive, though not as attractive as when she was younger, and had two boyfriends for a while, one good in bed, the other good at conversation.)

These answer is puzzling as I’m not sure how the lady makes it work and safe to her.
Condoms don’t protect from everything. It’s would take regular STD testing and being sexually exclusive to be 100% protected for me. And what about oral sex?

Anonymous wrote:The only obstacle to you finding a FWB is your own pickyness. Most women are incredibly picky and thus don’t get what they want.

Anonymous wrote:For any semi-decent looker it’s never hard. Free sex -men will take it.