Anonymous
Post 12/29/2025 22:15     Subject: dh has been meeting women online but claims it's just for the thrill

Anonymous wrote:more to "match" with them and meet and know someone is interested
but nothing physical happens in most cases.
i discovered this when he left his laptop open




What now? Come again? Excuse me?

Sorry, but this sounds like a rage-bait.

Anonymous
Post 12/29/2025 22:12     Subject: dh has been meeting women online but claims it's just for the thrill

In case you did not know...

This is batshit crazy.

It would be more normal if he started with a valued friend/colleague and then went on to have an emotional or physical affair with her.

But meeting women online for the thrill?

I usually advise against divorce, but this is not going to end well, OP. Please prepare financially for a separation down the road.
Anonymous
Post 12/29/2025 22:09     Subject: dh has been meeting women online but claims it's just for the thrill

I’m guilty of this. Mostly for entertainment.
Anonymous
Post 12/29/2025 21:29     Subject: dh has been meeting women online but claims it's just for the thrill

My husband made the same excuse when I caught him. It’s a lie. Even if it were true, that’s a no go from any good husband.
Anonymous
Post 12/29/2025 21:26     Subject: dh has been meeting women online but claims it's just for the thrill

This is about the worst thing I’ve read in a week or longer related to relationships. Just unacceptable.
Anonymous
Post 12/29/2025 20:03     Subject: dh has been meeting women online but claims it's just for the thrill

There are lots of ways to get a thrill that don't involve betraying your spouse.
Anonymous
Post 12/29/2025 19:34     Subject: dh has been meeting women online but claims it's just for the thrill

Do you wash dishes and laundry?
Anonymous
Post 12/29/2025 19:29     Subject: dh has been meeting women online but claims it's just for the thrill

Get yourself a panel of STD tests now. Don't have any kind of sex with him until he does in your presence and you get the results.
Anonymous
Post 12/29/2025 19:21     Subject: dh has been meeting women online but claims it's just for the thrill

I’d divorce over that. No trust, no marriage.
Anonymous
Post 12/29/2025 19:20     Subject: dh has been meeting women online but claims it's just for the thrill

Anonymous wrote:Oh come on. You cannot possibly believe him.


This
Anonymous
Post 12/29/2025 19:18     Subject: dh has been meeting women online but claims it's just for the thrill

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Trolls don't even try these days.


You are the Troll.
Calling every post a Troll.


NP. I'm sure poor OP is not a troll.
I'm sorry, OP, your husband is a jerk. He is either actively looking for affairs or already had some. Matching online with women is not how decent married men spend their free time. I'm sorry... Do you have children with this lowlife?
Anonymous
Post 12/29/2025 18:53     Subject: dh has been meeting women online but claims it's just for the thrill

Anonymous wrote:Trolls don't even try these days.


You are the Troll.
Calling every post a Troll.
Anonymous
Post 12/29/2025 18:45     Subject: dh has been meeting women online but claims it's just for the thrill

Anonymous wrote:more to "match" with them and meet and know someone is interested
but nothing physical happens in most cases.
i discovered this when he left his laptop open




At least he doesn't have ADHD and keeps home clean, this is a non-issue.
Anonymous
Post 12/29/2025 18:35     Subject: dh has been meeting women online but claims it's just for the thrill

Anonymous wrote:more to "match" with them and meet and know someone is interested
but nothing physical happens in most cases.
i discovered this when he left his laptop open




No. Even if he doesn't care about ethics or morals, he gave up his rights for such thrill when he signed a legal marriage contract.
Anonymous
Post 12/29/2025 18:25     Subject: dh has been meeting women online but claims it's just for the thrill

Wow. Came to this board for support.