Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP with an update:
I chatted with Amazon who said we could return for credit without cousin knowing. They do seem to have legit shoes for not much more $. So we will do that. Interesting: the chat was very nice, friendly, I was mostly asking questions about process…but as soon as the customer service rep identified the Amazon seller the convo immediately got escalated for now obvious reason. I hadn’t said why I was asking questions or anything - hadn’t hinted at dupes at all. Makes me think they’ve gotten a lot of complaints about that seller? Hard to know.
Fwiw, it’s not about “name brand only” for me or for my daughter (who btw is an adult and absolutely knows about dupes without my telling her). I know there’s no way to prove this to any of you, and that’s fine, but I’m not that person. I’m a second-hand/vintage shopper in almost all cases. My closet and home is filled with Goodwill and fb Marketplace goods.
But I think if someone is spending $150 on what they think is a just-right name-brand item, it should actually be that item. Otherwise they are being taken advantage of by the least scrupulous among us. I dunno, that seems kinda existentially crummy.
Anyway, thanks for all your input and suggestions. I didn’t realize I could exchange without cousin knowing. Appreciate it, and I appreciate all of you (even the ones who assumed I was The Worst — we’d actually probably get along quite well irl). Happy holidays, all.
* got escalated for no obvious reason
Anonymous wrote:OP with an update:
I chatted with Amazon who said we could return for credit without cousin knowing. They do seem to have legit shoes for not much more $. So we will do that. Interesting: the chat was very nice, friendly, I was mostly asking questions about process…but as soon as the customer service rep identified the Amazon seller the convo immediately got escalated for now obvious reason. I hadn’t said why I was asking questions or anything - hadn’t hinted at dupes at all. Makes me think they’ve gotten a lot of complaints about that seller? Hard to know.
Fwiw, it’s not about “name brand only” for me or for my daughter (who btw is an adult and absolutely knows about dupes without my telling her). I know there’s no way to prove this to any of you, and that’s fine, but I’m not that person. I’m a second-hand/vintage shopper in almost all cases. My closet and home is filled with Goodwill and fb Marketplace goods.
But I think if someone is spending $150 on what they think is a just-right name-brand item, it should actually be that item. Otherwise they are being taken advantage of by the least scrupulous among us. I dunno, that seems kinda existentially crummy.
Anyway, thanks for all your input and suggestions. I didn’t realize I could exchange without cousin knowing. Appreciate it, and I appreciate all of you (even the ones who assumed I was The Worst — we’d actually probably get along quite well irl). Happy holidays, all.
Anonymous wrote:Honestly, who cares? Just give them to your DD and have her wear them. Literally NOBODY is going to know they're not real. Set them in the garage for a few days and the smell will go away. Nobody is going to see if there is or is not a serial number (like that's not something a normal consumer would even look for).
Anonymous wrote:"Hey cousin, thanks so much! Unfortunately, I think Amazon sent us fakes - so frustrating, I have had this problem with Amazon before Let me know what you would like me to do."
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Honestly, who cares? Just give them to your DD and have her wear them. Literally NOBODY is going to know they're not real. Set them in the garage for a few days and the smell will go away. Nobody is going to see if there is or is not a serial number (like that's not something a normal consumer would even look for).
This is correct.
Your cousin only spent $25 and they appear to be functional shoes, so she hasn't wasted money. Your DD likes them and can't tell the difference, and they aren't obvious enough that anyone else will be able to tell anyway. So basically the only person bothered here is you and it's not clear why?
Anonymous wrote:Honestly, who cares? Just give them to your DD and have her wear them. Literally NOBODY is going to know they're not real. Set them in the garage for a few days and the smell will go away. Nobody is going to see if there is or is not a serial number (like that's not something a normal consumer would even look for).
Anonymous wrote:Please please do not embarrass the gift giver. Wear them or don't but the juice is not worth the squeeze here. How lovely of the gift giver to think if your daughter.
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