Anonymous
12/15/2025 06:49
Subject: Would this be a dealbreaker for you?
He can break up at the drop of a hat. You are 39. Do the math
Anonymous
12/14/2025 22:32
Subject: Re:Would this be a dealbreaker for you?
It would be a dealbreaker for me because it would make me feel insecure in our overall relationship.
Because I would be afraid of angering him and thus might keep some of my feelings inside rather than discussing them w/him out of fear that I would lose him.
Because I would be afraid of angering him and thus might keep some of my feelings inside rather than discussing them w/him out of fear that I would lose him.
Anonymous
12/11/2025 20:10
Subject: Would this be a dealbreaker for you?
Anonymous wrote:I kind of would wonder what the two big fights are about before answering
Oh man, that posted too quickly.
I would want to know what the two fights were about before answering. It sounds like it might’ve been something really big that took him some time to work out.
However, Weeks of being on eggshells is not the way to go either I would say probably a dealbreaker, but context is definitely needed
Anonymous
12/11/2025 20:09
Subject: Would this be a dealbreaker for you?
I kind of would wonder what the two big fights are about before answering
Anonymous
12/11/2025 20:04
Subject: Would this be a dealbreaker for you?
Omg really op? Deal breaker and you KNOW this.
Anonymous
12/11/2025 19:44
Subject: Would this be a dealbreaker for you?
Anonymous wrote:This would be a total dealbreaker for me
Same. Your only have to say that to me once.
Anonymous
12/11/2025 19:33
Subject: Would this be a dealbreaker for you?
Anonymous wrote:This is how he deals with minor relationship stress. How is he going to deal with big issues? Someone gets sick? Someone loses their job? Someone gets into a car accident?
A man who can't control his emotions is a major red flag, and a potential danger to any intimate partner.
And btw, it doesn't matter who is wrong, how you handle conflict is a very important skill. Him being single with no kids at 40 likely means he hasn't learn these very basic things and no one else wants him.
+100
Even if he is dealing with extended family and work things now, things will only get more complicated with marriage (and potentially kids). Work and extended family things don’t decrease (they go waves).
Move on. He’s not emotionally mature enough for a relationship.